Members Shoop Posted October 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 My boyfriend and I went up to bed tonight and he asked me if I wanted to watch porn. We have NEVER done this in the 2+ years we have been together. I have some *porn issues* in the sense that my ex-h used to have sex with his porn instead of me...and then he started wanting me to surgically alter myself to LOOK like the porn stars...at which point I knew there was a bit of a possible "problem" with our sex life . Anyways, but my boyfriend is NOT my ex, so I thought "heck why not, right?"Well I was pleasantly surprised really. I mean we only watched about 1 hr of whatever he's got, but the thing that struck me was the girls looked REAL...like real women....I mean some had stretch marks, not pencil thin thighs, real boobs It was shot more like REAL SEX too, which I liked. It wasn't cut/cut/cut/cut edited together with uncomfortable positions that "look good" for the camera...it was probably low budge then, maybe eh? Either way, I liked it. Heck not that I don't' think big fake boobed plastic playboy type porn isn't hot...it totally can be...but then as a 35yr old mom...well I feel I can't quite compare, yk? I am pretty cute and sexy, but not PERFECT like the porno women my EX seemed to like, yk? Wow, that was a big ranting babble there, sorry. Anyways the point is the porn watching thing was ok.Then he said to me that he wanted to get in my ass. We've only done this ONCE, this past summer. And at that point we were still anal virgins. I've turned down EVERY man I've slept with to do this with me. I had boyfriends BEG. And for some reason I knew that my current boyfriend was "the one" that I would do it with if I ever decided to do it with ANYONE. He is really SO sexy to me....Anyways so we tried it again tonight. He gave me a boob orgasm where he sucks my nipples and I masturbate and then I put my new nipple clips on (hey, I wanted to try something new) and got my big dildo (I liked dp-ing in my vaj when we did it in the summer, I don't know why...maybe so my vaj didn't feel left out? or maybe because it was a bit dirtier maybe...but I digress) and he put a few fingers in me and then I told him to just put his penis in me...I think he felt a bit frustrated as I think he was in the mood to fuck hard (oh fyi, the porno had now moved on from oral sex on him, to oral on her, to anal) and since i'm new to this he had to go slow...he didn't want to hurt me and I didn't want to be hurt....so he was able to move but not really FUCK hard, you know? (does it get so that you can fuck hard with anal and it doesn't hard? Or is that just porn?) Can a WOMAN like to be fucked hard with anal or is that just in porn too? Anyways, he nearly stopped but I told him not to, to keep going and I grabbed his balls and held them. He kept moving at a mid-range sort of pace. VERY soon after I felt his balls pulsate and tighten. It was so cool feeling him come.I was still horny after that. Funny considering the anal was his idea.I guess it does turn me on in a way although I don't search it out. Anyways I made him suck on my tits again. He took one clamp off while leaving the other nipple clamped. He sucked on my boob while I masturbated to another rocking orgasm.Fuck that was good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted October 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Well that sounded fun!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted October 28, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 ...ha, it really really was!Now go read my thread in the masturbation forum, equally as fun! Ha. Well maybe not so fun, more 'confessional'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted October 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 For me it depends sometimes I can handle it hard and deep. .....orther times I can't it needs to be slow. I know for me sometimes it depends on my cycle what I can withstand. Just take it one step at a time and let your body tell you what you can handle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 I'm just an anal beginner and haven't gotten that far yet... so I don't know. But, I enjoyed your little story. TaTa for now, I'm off to read your confessional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members elise Posted November 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 12, 2008 Yes, hard thrusting in the ass can be VERY good for a woman, depending. Congratulations on having tried and enjoyed anal sex, BTW!!! As I've posted before, it can take some time for a woman to really get into anal sex. One of the things that really worked to get me into it was that my HB was very careful and gentle, and I trusted him not to hurt me. But the other thing was that he made a point of making sure that I had an orgasm every time we put his cock in my ass. We started by using a vibrator on my clit while he moved his cock slowly in my ass. (The slow moving was good for me, because there was no way I could take hard thrusting at first... and also, it helped him control his excitement, so he didn't come before I did). Anyway, the first time it took about 15 minutes for me to get there, but I finally had a huge orgasm. When I came, he started pumping faster, and he quickly came too. That was our pattern for anal sex for a long time. But over time I came to enjoy the feeling of anal penetration a lot more, and after a while I would put the vibe down and come from just the feeling of his cock moving inside me, a lot like a vaginal orgasm, but different. Pure anal orgasms are incredibly good. I really enjoy hard thrusting in my ass now sometimes, but to be honest, he usually starts with slow deep thrusts until I reach my first orgasm, and then he picks up the pace. Keep trying. Don't be surprised if in a few months you are as addicted to deep, hard anal fucking as we are! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted November 17, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 17, 2008 thanks for the info, I had no idea one could "build up to it" essentially. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members elise Posted December 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted December 16, 2008 thanks for the info, I had no idea one could "build up to it" essentially. Oh, absolutely! My HB and I have been having regular anal sex for years and years, and I love deep, hard anal fucking... but if we haven't done anal for a while (dunno how long exactly that is.. maybe two or three weeks? our sex life cycles... sometimes we have anal almost every time we fuck, sometimes we're just more focused on other activities...) he has to start with slow thrusting or I'll make him stop. He loves coming in my ass, which is good incentive for him to make sure he doesn't pick up the pace until I'm ready for it. In a really good anal session, I'll come several times before he really starts piledriving my ass (ahem.. excuse the pun), and then I come my brains out over and over until he pumps his load into me. And BTW, I agree that it's great feeling my man come in my ass. I can feel him come in my ass a lot better than I can feel him come in my pussy... not the squirts of semen, but the pulsations of his cock. Keep us posted on your anal adventures! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted December 19, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted December 19, 2008 thanks! Well we've still only done it those 2 times. I'm a bit nervous and uneasy still...so I basically wait for him to bring it up...and then I'll do it...I'm not quite at the "me suggesting" it time in our relationship! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members N2OSX Posted December 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted December 22, 2008 My boyfriend and I went up to bed tonight and he asked me if I wanted to watch porn. We have NEVER done this in the 2+ years we have been together. I have some *porn issues* in the sense that my ex-h used to have sex with his porn instead of me...and then he started wanting me to surgically alter myself to LOOK like the porn stars...at which point I knew there was a bit of a possible "problem" with our sex life . Anyways, but my boyfriend is NOT my ex, so I thought "heck why not, right?"Well I was pleasantly surprised really. I mean we only watched about 1 hr of whatever he's got, but the thing that struck me was the girls looked REAL...like real women....I mean some had stretch marks, not pencil thin thighs, real boobs It was shot more like REAL SEX too, which I liked. It wasn't cut/cut/cut/cut edited together with uncomfortable positions that "look good" for the camera...it was probably low budge then, maybe eh? Either way, I liked it. Heck not that I don't' think big fake boobed plastic playboy type porn isn't hot...it totally can be...but then as a 35yr old mom...well I feel I can't quite compare, yk? I am pretty cute and sexy, but not PERFECT like the porno women my EX seemed to like, yk? Wow, that was a big ranting babble there, sorry. Anyways the point is the porn watching thing was ok.Then he said to me that he wanted to get in my ass. We've only done this ONCE, this past summer. And at that point we were still anal virgins. I've turned down EVERY man I've slept with to do this with me. I had boyfriends BEG. And for some reason I knew that my current boyfriend was "the one" that I would do it with if I ever decided to do it with ANYONE. He is really SO sexy to me....Anyways so we tried it again tonight. He gave me a boob orgasm where he sucks my nipples and I masturbate and then I put my new nipple clips on (hey, I wanted to try something new) and got my big dildo (I liked dp-ing in my vaj when we did it in the summer, I don't know why...maybe so my vaj didn't feel left out? or maybe because it was a bit dirtier maybe...but I digress) and he put a few fingers in me and then I told him to just put his penis in me...I think he felt a bit frustrated as I think he was in the mood to fuck hard (oh fyi, the porno had now moved on from oral sex on him, to oral on her, to anal) and since i'm new to this he had to go slow...he didn't want to hurt me and I didn't want to be hurt....so he was able to move but not really FUCK hard, you know? (does it get so that you can fuck hard with anal and it doesn't hard? Or is that just porn?) Can a WOMAN like to be fucked hard with anal or is that just in porn too? Anyways, he nearly stopped but I told him not to, to keep going and I grabbed his balls and held them. He kept moving at a mid-range sort of pace. VERY soon after I felt his balls pulsate and tighten. It was so cool feeling him come.I was still horny after that. Funny considering the anal was his idea.I guess it does turn me on in a way although I don't search it out. Anyways I made him suck on my tits again. He took one clamp off while leaving the other nipple clamped. He sucked on my boob while I masturbated to another rocking orgasm.Fuck that was good.So what was the name of this movie? My wife might like that one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted December 25, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted December 25, 2008 So what was the name of this movie? My wife might like that one."fresh asses 2"...brutal movie name. Ulgh! But that was it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted December 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted December 26, 2008 When my SO gets his own place here, he's planning on getting the free DVD of the month.... never owned my own DVDs before.... so this should be VERY interesting.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted November 12, 2009 Members Report Share Posted November 12, 2009 thanks for the info, I had no idea one could "build up to it" essentially. Absolutely.Sometimes when I am so freakin horny for a good reaming I start out with Mr Big and very little lube. I like it hard and fast and generally with shallow strokes. After a few minutes it gets so fucking intense I HAVE to slow down. At that point I may switch to Lil Red so I can go deep but slow. I like a bullet vibe between my legs at high speed at this point. A few more minutes like this and Lil Red is exchanged for Big again or CyberBoy. At this point I move to the corner of my bed and sit up as I rock the dong in and out as fast as I possibly can.I will finish this up later. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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