Members mystofpric Posted January 3, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2009 Never ask why there is an ear nailed to the wall in a biker bar.Very wise word indeed.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted January 3, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2009 I learned exatly why he is an ex. End of story.....hehee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members karadoll81 Posted January 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 Never take anything/anybody for granted.Trust in your first instinct.Having the bad things happen are especially good to learn from, your most likely not going to repeat them.If you don't have the trust your better off without him/her.Not to let a boyfriend tell you what he did wasn't rape even though everyone else (including yourself) say's it was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted January 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 That even if your trust was betrayed and your heart was broken,there is still happiness to be found elsewhere if you are open to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members susanmarie Posted January 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 Never breed with someone who won't be a good parent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted January 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 Never breed with someone who won't be a good parent.i love how you put that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted January 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 Never breed with someone who won't be a good parent.That honestly made me laugh out loud... Very good point though! =D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members susanmarie Posted January 29, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Thanks ladies:) Yup, my ex husband is really missing out on some great kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted January 30, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 30, 2009 As much as I'd like to agree with your statement there are some who actually grow into this position. I've seen several of both sexes who I would never believe would make a decet parent much less go above that expectation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted January 31, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 31, 2009 As much as I'd like to agree with your statement there are some who actually grow into this position. I've seen several of both sexes who I would never believe would make a decet parent much less go above that expectation.Umm i think the abusive guys and gals are definite no-breeders, i mean if they'll abuse an SO, what's to stop them from doing the same to a kid? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hog Posted January 31, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 31, 2009 Something positive you've learned from an ex? Nothing, or they wouldn't be an ex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted January 31, 2009 Review Team Report Share Posted January 31, 2009 Had to think a lot about this one.My most recent ex taught me a lot, even if it was a short relationship.He taught me, or I guess maybe reminded me, that I deserve happiness and better than him (I don't mean that hatefully). It was a lesson well learned, too, as I am happier now than I have been in ... maybe forever.Remember, things happen for a reason, even exes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunshine Sam218 Posted April 10, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 I had to think a lot about this one. It's been a year for me and I had to think back. I guess I learned from my ex boyfriend is that you have to learn to trust someone. If there's no trust, it can't work out. You can't stop what's going to happen, if someone falls out of love with you... then he wasn't the person for you. I'm more independent and learned a lot about myself. My trust has gained a lot over this past year. Now I'm a much happier person cause I worked through my problems. So I'm grateful that I learned that from him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 Something positive you've learned from an ex? Nothing, or they wouldn't be an ex <3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members blueberry Posted April 10, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 Love is not enough.Don't give up if you don't succeed after first try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shoupja Posted April 12, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 12, 2009 As soon as a guy starts telling you how to dress or prohibiting you from eating certain things, RUN!Amen to that! When I was 18/19 (not really sure anymore) I dated a guy that had a thing about he way his woman looked when he was around his friends. Needless to say this relationship didn't last very long. We were walking into a club one night and he was walking in front of me. Before we got to the door he turned around grabbed me by the shoulders and looked me over. He said "You NEED to put some lipstick on." I laughed and said "OK" and put some on as he kept walking. He actually turned and checked to see if I did it before we walked into the club. He was always criticizing my clothing or telling me what to wear. I think we actually dated less than a month. NO ONE orders me around. (Well, maybe in the bedroom! ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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