Tyger

So, do ya, do ya? I mean like either Forum, Letters, Playboy/girl, Hustler, and other various magazines out there? Another question, do you like to look at pictures, or do you get turned on by reading articles? Both?

Silicone lubes are more slick, and, at least for us, tend to stay slicker longer (no evaporating). Hence, why the silicone lube is best for us with anal play with non-silicone toys.

OMG!! Too funny! LMAO

A woman scanned the guests at a party and spotted an attractive man, standing alone. She approached him. "My name is Carmen," she told him. "That's a beautiful name," he replied, "Is it a family name?" "No," she replied. "I gave it to myself. It reflects the things I like most -- cars and men." "What's your name?" she asked. He said, "Bob Titsenbeer"

For anal play, we prefer silicone. However, for everything else, I love waterbased lubes, just because you don't have to worry about the toys breaking down in case you forget what they're made of. Plus, I get bladder infections REALLY easily, always have (family history BS), so, to me, water-based lubes are a bit less "risky" in my mind.

Yes, Vagisil is for yeast infections, and, for external itching, they have other creams for that. My daughter's pediatrician told me to use Lotramine Ultra for an external yeast infection she got during her first summer, when she was an infant too. Now they are recognizing it more, and there is a cream (at least for infants). If you're itchy and can't explain it, then go see your health care professional.

I've always been interested in clit stimulators (as any healthy orgasming woman should!). This definitely looks interesting! Kinda looks like Mick Jagger's mouth going aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!

I'm still curious about the warning sticker, but I love the looks of the vibe!! Jenna usually puts her name on some great products!!

No, Glenn, that would not be an external yeast infection. That just may be the nerves of your areas you used the Hitachi with going back to "normal", being recharged from a good massage. Great question though. External yeast infections need medications to go away.

I love direct stimulation on my clit too. Gives me a nice fast O every time. Some women prefer more direct stimulation, some don't. And, it also depends on the woman how long that the direct pressure is needed too. However, pushing a vibe too hard, or rubbing too hard, especially in the heat of the moment, may cause some friction burn-like bruising. It should heal up quickly. Make sure to clean the area well, especially if lube was used. Because you can get an external yeast infection if stuff sits too long, you wear too tight clothing, you wear lots of nylon undies instead of cotton, or you may sweat too much one day. Those things happen, and can itch/cause pain. But, yours definitely sounds like you just pushed too hard on it. Maybe wear some loose pants/skirt, and don't put any pressure on that area for a day or 2. Best wishes!

A man could definitely do this alone. But, again, he would have to READ the instructions. And, if your man is like mine with not even wanting to look at it, but figure it out all by himself, you'll want to help him out, lest you get stuck with 2 blocks of casting material in tube shapes, and no mold or dildo! LOL They do make great bricks though.....

Welcome fellow Texan! I hope you have fun with us!

MAKE YOUR OWN DILDO KIT How many times have you read in our forum “Sex is Adult Playtime”? Well, this kit will definitely add a spice of fun and adventure into your sex life! Make an exact rubber replica of you/your man’s penis! Empire Labs is the company that came out with the original Dildo kit, and they added a bit of fun with this new version, by adding a bullet for you to put INSIDE the dildo when making it. The excuse that “my man is intimidated by anything artificial or larger then he is” is now null and void with this kit! You can cast HIM! So now he can watch as he fucks you too! And, all for the price of a good, quality already made dildo! You just can’t go wrong here! Get ready for some adventure, laughs, and a bit of Mr. Wizard all rolled into creating your own dildo! The kit comes in a large bucket with a lid, molding powder, patented “liquid skin”, liquid rubber, thermometer, mixing stick, instruction booklet, molding container tube & testicle cup (these can be separated), and a high powered vibrating bullet (it takes 2 AA batteries, not incl.). I recommend mixing this stuff on a slick, clean countertop. It cleans off fairly easy, and you may need to scrap some of the rubber spilt off, but you can get it off with a little effort. I’m here to tell you that casting these things aren’t as easy as you may think! This kit had great instructions, and when they give you the times to follow, they MEAN exactly! Lay out all of the materials you will need before you do the casting, so you don’t waste any time searching for things. The only things you will need that they don’t provide is water, and a measuring cup, and a spoon or spatula. The first try, I had thought I had a little extra time to give my hubby some oral help to get a nice big erection and keep it. However, I took a little too long, and, since he’s not the Man of Steel, he couldn’t put his cock in the already hardened mixture after 2 minutes of the casting material being in the tube. Luckily, the kit contains enough powder to do 2 castings (whew!), though the second try didn’t have quite enough for including my hubby’s balls, but, his cock is what I wanted anyway. So, again, let me stress how much you NEED to read and FOLLOW the directions. The directions are easy, but take them at heart! The second try was a success! The water to mix the casting stuff has to be 75 degrees F, which SOUNDS warm enough, however, it’s really not that warm on your member, so I was informed! I got the stuff poured into the tube, and got hubby to get the stuff over his erect cock. Yes, some glopped out and hit the floor, but it cleaned up easily. We kept it on a bit longer than the recommended 60 seconds, because I’d put a bit too much water in it, but his cock casted! Getting this off was a bit difficult, but he’d shaved his area before hand, so, once the vacuum seal broke, he got his cock out of the tube. What a trooper! He said it wasn’t overly painful or anything, just uncomfortable. (We were able to have some sexual fun after the dildo was cast, so he wasn’t hurting that bad!). When he first tried getting it off, with a good tug, he just looked at me like he wanted to beat me. I told him that it was all for “quality control purposes”, while trying to suppress a giggle. Then, jokingly,I mentioned that, well, if we had too, the ER could get the thing off for him. I got a resounding “aw hell naw!” for that one. The laughing was all in good fun though. He got the mold off his cock, with a couple more firm tugs, and we had some laughs too! None of the casting material stuck to him either. We were both happy about that. The casting stuff scraped off of all of the utensils too. I also recommend that when doing the actual casting, to do it on linoleum, in a tub, or another slick surface, or over a towel that you care nothing about, since this stuff will be very difficult to get up out of a rug. The casting material brushed off our hardwood floor fairly easily with a broom & dustpan, which, again, made me happy. Since my hubby has a curve in his cock, I left the casting in the tube, since he did rub up against the wall. If you do have a curve, just to spin the tube around your cock a bit, & try and get as much of the casting material around it as you can. We mixed and poured the rubber/coloring combo in a bowl, then poured it into my hubby’s cock mold. I slid the bullet as far as I wanted too, and let it cure for the full 24 hours, as recommended. Be careful, because that rubber will drip down the bullet’s cord, and you do need to scrap that stuff off the counter if it dries! I also left the cast IN the tube while it cured, since he had that curve, and you could still see the head of his cock in the tube. So, I didn’t want that stuff pouring out all over the place! Which was easy to slide out of the tube, when it was all cured and it was safe to take it all out, and the casting stuff came off easily, in pieces. Hubby was so cute, cuz all day long, while we were waiting for his replica to cure, he kept poking at the end, and asking me if I thought it was safe to pull out yet. I kept having to tell him that we had to wait for 24 hours before we took it out. Unfortunately, I noticed when I pulled my new dildo out, that the bullet is visible near the tip, with a thin layer of the rubber on it, due to my hubby’s curvature. But the vibes are strong, so it’s all good. The color is suppose to be a “white” guy, but the coloring looks more like caramel, not that I really care about that. Being the sensory woman that I am, I had to smell it, and it has that “New Dildo Smell”. Actually it almost smells like the new car smell. LOL Washing it with soap and water helped, but not a lot. And, since I couldn’t get the full mold of his testicles, and he didn’t push the tube all the way against him, (see? ALWAYS listen to your wife’s instructions carefully!) it looks smaller than his generous length. In fact, it’s a whole 3” shorter than what he is. But that still makes my dildo a nice, thick 6” (yes, I measured it), so, I’m still happy with it. There are only 2 small air bubbles, and I can see the tiniest details of his skin on my dildo, which is pretty neat. Another bonus about this fun experiment is that the tube is reusable, and you can get refill kits too! So, I may need to order a refill kit and try my hand at casting my hubby’s dick again soon! And for the most important part: The dildo felt great!!! Hubby had a lot of fun using his own “mini me” cock on me! It felt pretty real, and as good as many high quality dildos out there on the market! And the vibes from the bullet were very strong, just the way I like them, and felt very good! The placement of the bullet was perfect for me! Since my hubby is out of town a week at a time with his job, he can still do his spousal duties by me, and satisfy my need for cock even when he’s not here! Cock Casting Today!!

Well, to be honest, I suck with reading people's blogs, so I haven't read yours. Bad Tyger, baaaaad! As far as your desire goes, I don't think you're a freak. It may show that you would love to see your wife with someone, I presume, you trust, since you don't have these fantasies about other men with your wife. Seeing your lover with someone else is a common fantasy. I myself have had fantasies of watching my husband with another woman, but I don't really want to actually have that come true. I would recommend that you NOT try and see this one come true. Not sure how your wife would take you wanting to see her with another guy, but, there would probably be similar reprocussions as with a 3-some afterwards. I would suggest you read that forum and see how some other's have dealt with threesomes. Then there is the fact that this IS your brother. So, if things didn't work out, if he sucked and your wife couldn't stand him, or, if, unfortunately, your marriage broke up, that wouldn't be between you and your brother. Let me suggest that maybe you ask your wife to allow you to film you and her having sex. Then watch it together. Have fun with it, set up a scene, or impromtu, you can have lots of different scenerios with it. Concentrate on having fun with each other, and experiment with each other. Have fun!

Another Vivid Entertainment DVD came to my door to view. I love Vivid films for their sheer “get down to business” philosophy in their films. Directed by B.$kow and starring Monique Alexander, Marcus London, Tony Pounds (like that’s his REAL name LOL), and others, come on an adventure to America, where dreams can come true! I will warn you, that the back of the DVD says that the star’s name is Jay and he’s Australian, but, in fact, his name is Jerry, and I believe he’s suppose to be French, going by the accent! Jerry is one hung, handsomely horny guy with big dreams and a big dick! Basically, JERRY gets his girlfriend pregnant, and so his father, who struts around in a red bikini, tells him to go to America, make some money, send for his family and pregnant girlfriend, leave the American girls alone, and live the American Dream! He stows away for 2 weeks, in a box, (yeah, right), jacking off to porn mags all the way, to America, there he’s in the land of the Free and the Horny! Unfortunately, Jerry can’t seem to leave the girls alone. He found a job quick & easy enough, at a country restaurant, but got fired the same day for doing the lusciously sexy waitress. The waitress feels bad for getting him fired, and offers to allow him to stay with her and her boyfriend, whom you never meet. But you do meet her boyfriend’s brother, who IS Aussie, and she has her way with him too, after kicking Jerry out. There’s a masturbation scene with the waitress too, which was hot. Finally, Jerry thinks he finds the perfect job, where there are no women to get him in trouble, but….. It got confusing once again, when, Jerry is a bathroom attendant at a club, and these girls sneak into the men's room, where Jerry's at, since the ladies room is being used, and they REALLY have to go, one uses the urinal, which is shown, but have no money to tip him, so, they give him the tip of a lifetime, by double-teaming him. Jerry is asking his father what he should do, and all of a sudden, he is replaced by his father (as in Jerry disappears, and there’s his dad instead), and then you see him go into an intense 3-some with 2 very curvy women, one of which has almost obscenely large breasts. Both are a curvier shape, and are very verbal with what they like! After that, again, Jerry’s father is shown, finally getting his American Dream Job….he goes into porn! I’m still not sure where Jerry went…..but even though this film was a bit confusing, it was hot to watch! Great close ups, lots of oral, and beautiful sweaty bodies are a feast for your carnal desires for sure! This DVD is shot in high-definition, has lots of bonus features! The plot isn’t followed well, but the lengthy sexy scenes make up for any of that! There’s some good fucking, and if you don't care about plots or dialogue, you'll be very happy with this film! Go to America and live the Dream!

Too cute! Welcome to the forum and happy playing!

One of the biggest hurdles is training yourself to relax when something, no matter if it's a finger or a toy, goes UP inside the anus, since, as we all know, the anus is designed to push things OUT. Also, don't confuse discomfort, with pain. Have fun!

My deepest condolences for your family's loss. Parents aren't meant to bury their children, and I am saddened for you, I truly am. It's normal and common for people to push loved ones away when someone that we love dies. I did it when my dad died with my ex husband (we were living together at the time). I brushed him aside dealing with my own grief. With things like that, I am very private. One of my dear friends actually pulled me aside and told me that I really should let him in, and allow him to help me thru this. It took a long time to do, but, now, after something really sad, I really do try to open up and allow people to help. Dealing with your own grief is extremely hard and painful, dealing with 2 people's grief, especially those of a parent, seems almost impossible! Let people in, be kind to each other, support each other, remember the good times, share, and just hold each other. It will take time, but your son is always in your hearts. Best wishes and bright blessings!

Ok, so this is what it boils down too: Pregnancy worries-gone. You try and try to be assertive, but he pushes you away. You've faked it all these years cuz you wanted him to feel good, and NOW you want him to do more. You both work AND have small kids. You feel as though he'd rather watch internet porn that come to you. He hasn't listened to your repeated requests to try harder, or suggestions. He refuses to try anything new. You're tired, lonely, and horny as hell! Did I get it all? Now, a few questions for you: Do you think he may have ED? Do you think he may be thinking that it's unfair of you to all of a sudden say "OK, well, now you just don't cut it anymore in bed"? Is there stresses other than sex? Financial? Children sick? Things like that? Have you surfed the internet porn with him? Have you looked into free couselling, such as with a priest/minister of yours? Or maybe a community help meeting? Have you "allowed" him to catch you masturbating? Have you just tried bringing a toy in without consulting him first? Some suggestions: Next time you catch him cruising the porn sites, plop down on his lap and cruise with him. If he doesn't like that, then, IMO, he needs to shut it off. I will respectfully disagree with Howard, to a degree, on your orgasms being "your responsibility". If you're making love with your husband, it's HIS responsibility to make sure you have one! No matter how long it takes! After all, men usually "Get Theirs". It IS your responsibility to teach him what you like and what to do to allow you an orgasm, or several! If he doesn't want to reciprocate oral attention, then you should stop doing it for him, IMO. When he notices, and he will, let him know that it's equal ground. It really isn't fair to fake orgasms. This you've learned too late. It's not fair to you or to your lover. He may be feeling resentment that what he thought was working, wasn't, so why bother trying now, this late in the marriage! He needs to feel like he does something right, and that you want him to make love to you, I think. What would be the harm in letting him catch you masturbating? Or tell him you have a surprise for him, bring out a toy and MAKE HIM watch YOU, instead of the internet porn? If he has ED, which is not as common in younger people, but it DOES happen....then he may be unwilling to try and push you away to protect his already shattered ego. Do you get naps at all? Have you tried waking him up early in the morning, before the little ones are awake, or showering with him (to conserve water, of course!)? Anyway, these are a few suggestions, and I hope things work out for you. One other question, how long have you been talking to him about this, and how much longer are you willing to put up with? A loving marriage takes 2 people making HONEST efforts to make it work. If 1 person is giving, and the other is just taking, then it's not a real marriage at all. It's true that you should be best friends with your spouse, which you vehemently stick too. However, how good of a friend is he being by not listening and trying? And how good of a friend were you all these years to him by lying to him about him pleasuring you in bed? Just something to think about.

Too cute!

Howdy y'all!!!!

Good luck and have fun trying!!! Also, keep in mind, some people need a firmer toy and firmer vibes (or none at all). Everyone's different. Also, clit stimulations are key!!! When I had my first G-Spot O, I squirted!! Literally squirted! Thankfully, I knew what it was, and didn't freak out! LOL I wasn't even looking for it! So, yes, it CAN happen!

That was hot! Thanks for sharing!

I got a double harness to try with my hubby, and, I tell ya, I concur with the whole "exciting to use it on someone" too. I got hot just looking at myself, and being a "chick with a dick"!!

Welcome to the forum, glad you're enjoying reading, and we'll look forward to seeing more posts too!