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Any girl can squirt... and probably should. I've taught/shown many women how. So, perhaps I should open a school... Study time never sounded like so much fun. Really though, read all you can, practice lots, and don't be afraid of a damp bed. The payoff for both you, and your SO is very worth it. For those of you without alcohol issues, a couple of drinks to lower one's inhibitions does help out... Most responsible "teachers" won't add this ingredient to the mix, but more often than not, it's the one thing that gets troubled students a passing (no, not pissing) grade. Squirting is NOT pee, and NOT a myth. Of course, lots of what you see in porn is totally bogus. They recognize a fetish, and try to fill the market, but you can usually tell the difference. Edits placed right before the "money shot" are a dead giveaway. But stars like Flower Tucci and Cytherea seen to be the real deal... and human water fountains to boot... Keep at it, read Mikayla's thoughts, and have fun

Virginity is a state of mind... A girl I met in college was a virgin. She took great pride in the fact, and at one of the many floor parties, she and I were really connecting, and went to her room. Well, let me tell you this was a dirty little girl, and we did everything BUT have vaginal intercourse... including anal sex, which she informed me she'd done several times before... virgin? really? Not in my mind... that arbitrary "line in the sand" she set of not allowing a penis into her vagina seemed ridiculous to me. She eventually wanted me to go there, but in the beginning, I had to (inwardly) laugh at the situation. Then there was this girl from VT a year later who was pure as snow, who liked to kiss alot, but was afraid to go further. She, too, was worried about the pain of losing her virginity, and therefore, stayed away from any situation where things could lead to sex. When we finally had sex, she wondered what the worry was about... a bit of pain, but more good feelings than bad... So, if you want to save yourself for a future husband, great, but if you're waiting because of fear, wait no longer. Virginity is what you make it, and if you want to "lose" it, you should ask why you haven't. At 32, you're probably ready... if not, what has happened to you, emotionally to keep you from proceeding. The pain is really no reason not to, but if you fear sex, you might want to see a therapist to look into the root of that trepidation. Like the old adage goes... "come on in, the water's fine!" And fun too.

Avalon... I noticed that you have the Hitachi Magic Wand. That is the closest thing to a "power tool" available in the sextoy world... So after that, I'm not surprised that you were unimpressed with the Layaspot... Like comparing a Hummer with a Mini. My girl and I really love the Layaspot. It's close hugging shape makes it a great toy to use when she is riding on top of me. Not gonna shake the waterglass on the nightstand, but awesome nonetheless...

eat, drink and make merry, for tomorrow we may die... morbid, but true. be careful, but enjoy your life. and sex can be (should be?) a HUGE part of your life... these are somewhat enlightened, sexual times. not like the repressive past (for the most part). there are precautions to be had/taken to prevent a disease... take advantage of them. quick story... i was married for 9 years to a woman who had herpes. we had sex. lots of sex. all kinds of sex. i never got herpes. really! been tested! 100% clean... don't be afraid, but do be cautious... and have fun!

so, is that the purple Emperor? And is it any good? I know this is the Pic section, but how about a little review?

cock on the brain?

Your level of fitness can play a role in your erections also, and cholesterol levels have been said to effect them too. When I am in a running cycle (warmer weather months) and getting a ton of cardio exercise, my erections are MUCH stronger...

For the new shavers, whose bodies/skin are not used to the trauma... lotion is vital... Use a guys product... It's fine. The marketing departments of the maker of those lotions are missing out on a big segment of the market. I bet they catch on soon...

Out of focus... Bad lighting... Dirty fingernails... Cockring held together with duct tape... Reads like a recipe for tasteful photography, huh? I love the idea of this being a place for open, free discussion of sex and sexuality, and I would hate for censorship to be applied, but this is definitely not the borderline test case. He wasn't putting those up for the artistic merit of sharing great, erotic images. He was simply trying to shock, and perhaps trolling for dates. Hey even serial killers hook up... no accounting for taste... Rob, I think the argumentative value of this thread has been exhausted, so why not sweep this little thread under the rug... Pull it down, chalk it up to experience, and lets move on, happily helping each other get off...

I'd love to help, but I'm not used to dealing with computer problems... I have a Mac. Seriously though, who was the provider? Let us know, so we know to beware... enjoy the DSL on the new rig... scary fast if you're used to dial-up.

GingerJ and DirtyBlonde would make up my dream, tootimid threesome... both are smart, creative and perfectly lustful!

The itch goes away the more you shave... I never itch anymore. If you're new to it, I recommend an after-shave lotion. Soothes, and softens the skin, and can be re-applied as the itch occurs. Favorites are 1) l'Occitane Cade after shave balm and 2) Anthony after shave soother. Both are available through better skincare departments in department stores, or online. Good luck, that itch is awful... but this too will pass.

TooTimid is the best, and stands behind their offered products, so replacing shouldn't be an issue. Sounds like a manufacturer's defect, but smoke from 3 AA batteries seems odd... maybe you're girl was just steaming hot? Bad joke... sorry. If you don't trust, or want to risk repeating the problem, I would recommend a rabbit... the iVibe rabbit is pretty much a slam-dunk (please, no pun here). It is a great toy, lasts, and really gets the job done. Not too big, easy to use... amazingly quick orgasms! The first time my girl used it, she must have cum in twenty seconds... she started off aroused, but still... Good luck! Have fun!

Sounds like trouble... but if you want to go ahead with it, find a girl who is (much) more into other girls. That way you won't both be competing for his affection, but rather, yours. It seems like, from your question/statement, that this is all about him. If that doesn't work for you, you'll need to shift the focus to you and your pleasure. If a MMF is not okay with him, but it is what you want, then perhaps you're not really in need of the same thing. Threesomes with MMF vs.FFM are NOT the same thing, though both are called threesomes. He may just see it as a "sanctioned" opportunity to hit some strange... and I assume that's not what you're looking for.... by the way, what ARE you looking for? Is this just a way to keep him interested, and not cheating? Or is this your own bicuriuos experiment... I'll say it again, sounds like trouble...

thunder... a good after-shave lotion does wonders... they'll soften the skin, and soothe

Any way that you can cum, and feel great, should be explored...

For a good-morning-quickie... how about Bacon? Just kidding, but I personally find lubes that are too sweet annoying. That said, I think good flavors would be citrusy... Tangerine? Grapefruit? Or friuty, but not in that life-saver way... Raspberry? Pineapple? Mango? Guava? I personally hate a Mint/Chocolate combo, but how about Cherry/Mint? Honey/Peppermint? Caramel? God I love to drizzle caramel onto a woman's body and... sorry I got lost there... What the world needs is a good premium lube with real, pure flavors. I am tired of the taste of FAKE cherry! Yech!!!

as we say up here in Massachusetts... supah pitchas!

Alright, maybe a guy commenting on how to achieve a G-spot orgasm is bizarre, but I've had some (great) experience with the subject... so, here's my two cents. It is sometimes the case that in the pursuit of something (the much acclaimed big G-O) one may forget the true goal... pleasure. G-spot orgasms, and female ejaculation are wonderful things, but getting to them should be enjoyable. The first time I was with a woman who had G-spot orgasms (and squirted) was my first year of college. Freaked me out at first, but it was very hot, and boy, did we do a lot of bed linen laundering! It seemed that she had an extremely active G. It was far easier for her to achieve orgasm through penetration than with clitoral stimulation... exception to the rule, I suppose. But she showed me exactly how to use my fingers to get her there, and I would suck her clit as I "tickled" her G... and it was explosive... I would end up with a mouthful of ejaculate, and it was definitely NOT urine... With all of the women I have subsequently spent extended amounts of time with, each has been able to reach a G-spot O. Maybe not the first time, but eventually... The keys to reaching one (IMHO) are relaxation, patience and persistence. The articles on this site go into the hows and whys, so I won't, but I will just say two things... firstly, vibes may over stimulate you, especially if you you've never cum that way before... secondly, as for technique, if you want to get there on your own, the following method seems to do the job... Lay on your back, possibly with a pillow/booster under your shoulders to prop you up... like reading a book in bed. Start to stimulate yourself in the way you're familiar, rubbling your clit, fingering, etc... You'll want to do this until you're pretty well aroused, and wet. I might even recommend bringing yourself close to orgasm. Then, using either your middle and ring fingers, in the "come hither" motion, pumping and massaging your spot, or a curved glass toy to rub the area. Using firm, but gentle (I know, seeming contradiction, but you'll know what I mean when you feel it) pressure, you'll want to use one hand to keep your G stimulated, and the other on your clit to keep yourself "going", on the edge of cumming. But you'll want to go easy on the clitoral stim, because that's an easier orgasm to reach. If you're using your fingers, you'll probably feel your G swelling, filling with G-spot fluid... and you'll feel like you need to pee. Normal. If you relax, and allow the orgasm to come, it may come with the release of that fluid... and you'll squirt... or you might not, but holding back, tensing like you're holding in urine, can keep you from achieving your G-spot orgasm. Trust your body, relax, and let go. If you squirt, great, and if you don't that fluid will be recycled in your body, and released later with your urine. Some have deduced that a woman's need to urinate after sex (c'mon, you know you always need to!) comes from the need to rid the body of this backed up fluid in her body. Regardless... tensing up or holding back can keep you from orgasming, clitorally or by G. So, let go... and you should be able... But even if you don't have that G-spot O, HAVE FUN!!!! Be Blissful

Damn... I need to take a cold shower after that.... well written! VERY HOT!

circus-sex?

tickling our ass with feathers, bri.... WHAT happened??? Was it good? How did you feel (emotionally, sexually, physically) about the experience? Give up some details, and let us learn from you...

Right on Tyger!!! I have turned many girls onto glass toys... they are truly great, as communicated to me by rather happy friends. I hope anyone/everyone else who has experienced this, or other toys like it will chime in.

Hey Nicol... I highly recommend two toys in the dildo category, both rated tops with girls I play with... both available here at TooTimid 1) Pleasureskin 8" This is a pretty large, very realistic toy that provides lots of good stimulation (physical as well as visual) for a good price. The material is very skin-line, and the shape is indistinguishable from a real man. It's a bit big, but feels just like an honest body bit. I honestly haven't met a girl who did not like this toy. Of course, having said that on this forum opens the comment up to scrutiny... have at it all... let's hear your gripes... but I'm guessing there won't be too many disagreements. 2) Old Glory Helix Rocket If you have never used a glass toy, get ready to fall in love. Not large, but the fact that glass has no "give" to it, belies the dimensions. It feels like a more substantial piece. I have given many of these as gifts to close friends, and I get both thank you notes, and a few bunches of flowers in appreciation. Once you go glass... ? This toy will last forever (don't drop it) and is the ultimate in "clean" sextoys. Made from Pyrex, it can be put in the dishwasher, and in a world filled with throw away garbage, everywhere we turn, this toy is an investment in your sexual pleasure. Also, as an additional benefit, a glass toy is a nice compliment to love making if your spouse is the squeemish type. Because it only vaguely resembles a penis, an insecure hubby wont feel like he's being replaced. Hope this helps... enjoy!

Like every other product, not all conditioners are created equal. Perhaps the conditioner you used would do better actally conditioning your hair... hmmm... Conditioner didn't work for me either, though I enjoy masturbating (or being masturbated) in the shower with it. I still stand by the Origins shave cream product, called Blade Runner. Try it, and I promise you will love it. Follow up with a good skin conditioning after-shave balm... soothes the fire. My girl does the waxing thing, but on one occasion in particular, we were in the shower, and while I was shaving myself "down there", she expressed some curiosity. I laid her down, and went to work, trimming her clean. It was her first shave down there, and it went well. Smooth and clean and ready for fun (we had lots, by the way) . Everything was fine... Until the next day... the dreaded itch. Just a dab of soothing balm... voila! What makes the itch? As the hairs are attempting to push their way back out of the skin, they cause that irritation. Simply, the lubrication and skin softening effects of a soothing balm (I use the one made by l'Occitane) help the little buggers escape. And a good one will also have a cooling, tingly, numbing effect that helps also. Hope it works out... let me know.