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All the sex I'm having currently is very casual... not one night stand casual, but all the same, it's nowhere close to love. I find that the first few times I am with a person it's very difficult for me to concentrate on enjoying myself. Yes, it's enjoyable, but unless I am at least friends with them, I just don't feel enough of a connection to actually be able to orgasm. I can have great "friends with benefits" relationships as long as they really are friends and not just benefits... maybe that would be a nice compromise for you?

Modelling my skullcap ...and vintage driving goggles! ... and Cubscout uniform!

Interesting. Never seen a hybrid before . I wonder if hybrids of these species are naturally occurring?

I like gay porn (as in male on male), and specifically twinks. I prefer it to have some slight plot, and if it's funny that's even better. My fave production company is PZP because they do some HILARIOUS parodies, have gorgeous actors, and aren't afraid to poke fun at themselves and the industry. They're also very pro-condom, which is something I like to see.

Excellent advice

Do what he is doing to you to him... see how HE likes it!

I hung out with the boy this weekend for the first time in a couple of weeks. I am feeling so much better about things; mostly, I think, because he is obviously feeling better. What originally drew me to him is his honesty and openness, and the past few times I've seen him I've felt like he was holding back, sort of shielding himself... which doesn't bode well even for a friendship. I was kinda worried he was going to let the friendship slip and the relationship was going to turn into benefits only, but he was back to being himself on Friday, to my great relief. I feel like now I can start to enjoy this for what it is and not worry so much. He explained things a bit better to me too, without my even having to ask. He said that he has been in relationships most of his life, and for almost the first time, he found himself without one. He was feeling alone and depressed. One of his friends gave him the FANTASTIC advice to stay single for a while and try to figure out who he was as an individual, and learn how to feel whole by himself, so that is what he has been doing. He said he is starting to feel better and even like being single! I'm really, really glad for him, because I think that's such an incredibly important lesson for anyone to learn, and it has everything to do with being able to love yourself. Being able to recognize that you are broken and having the courage to do what it takes to really fix it instead of going for an easy, temporary solution displays a terribly uncommon level of introspection and maturity too... he is full of surprises. I won't lie, I'd still like to have more with him. I feel very right when I am with him, I don't know how to explain it... just being around him puts a smile on my face, and it was like that even when he was just a coworker (no longer working in the same place, for the record .) But now that I know what was going on and he has opened back up, I feel like I can just sit back and let whatever happens happen. I can be content. Most importantly though, I know that on the off chance I get my wish, it will be for the right reasons now.

Absolutely beautiful.

If you haven't signed up already, I'd suggest OkCupid. It's a pretty fun little site even if you don't meet anyone -- I signed up just for the quizzes! It has thousands of questions submitted by users; you answer as few or as many as you want. Then you get to pick what answer(s) your ideal match would choose, and rate how important each individual question is to you. The site chooses your matches based on that, so basically, YOU decide what you think is most important in a partner instead of the site deciding for you. So far it has been pleasantly free of perverts (the bad, annoying kind ) and to my surprise, even though I wasn't looking for anyone, I DID find someone, hah! He was one of my top 10 matches and we are getting along fantastic so far, so I guess it just goes to show that the site's matching system is top notch.

Showerhead. Outside of that, oddly, my own hands. I have so many toys now that I usually don't masturbate by hand, and when I do it's typically in a setting where I need to hurry, so I guess I am just in that mindset!

Everyone who knows me knows.

I tried looking this up, but I couldn't find any relevent studies on the matter. The most I personally have ever heard of a guy being able to ejaculate during a single session is about 4... he can still continue having dry orgasms after that, but typically after 4 ejaculations he's starting to run dry. I'm sure there's a good degree of variation there. After some recovery time he can produce more ejaculatory fluid as well.

Welp, nevermind. He said it tasted a little metallicy, but that's it. Yep, I'm spoiled.

I thought this was a really cool, informative article. So many guys out there are so insecure about their penis size/shape... more of them need to be exposed to such literature . It's all about knowing how to use what you have, am I right gals? http://www.menshealthsa.co.za/index.php?ca...&art_id=120

I could get used to this, hehe! The sexiest thing for me is when I feel my partner orgasm, so when he can do it and immediately go for another.... wow! That pushes me over the edge Apparently he also enjoys dry orgasms too. I asked him about it yesterday. He said he can cum about 4 times in a row, then it's dry orgasms after that... but he can still keep going! Color me impressed. How cool is that?

There are programs that can record whatever is happening on the viewer's screen.

LOL, why thank you Iha

Sexuality isn't always black, white, and grey -- it's a spectrum! It may be that he is bisexual, bicurious, or it may simply be that he is turned on by portions of the male anatomy but would never consider being with another man... all of these are perfectly fine and normal. He's the only one who can know how he really feels about it, so I'd just let him know that sexuality isn't clear-cut and to simply accept and be comfortable with whatever works for him

Interesting, thanks for the replies everyone. I'm not quite robbing the cradle with this one Mikayla, he is 23, hehe.

I have picked up a new partner who is extremely inexperienced, and infact yesterday was his first time with a woman. I have been having a lot of fun teaching him new things, but that's beside the point... the first time we had SI, he came very quickly, which is to be expected for first-timers, and I was ready to take a short break and go for seconds after a few minutes... but he stayed hard and came twice more within what couldn't have been more than a 15 minute timeframe! How common is this?? I was under the impression that this was nigh impossible for men! Am I mistaken? The second orgasm occurred literally one minute from the first! Upon my expressing my surprise at having witnessed this, he said that's how it has always been and it's not at all uncommon for him to come 3 times during a single masturbatory session. I am fascinated, and I admit, a little jealous!

Like everyone else said, I would take her to the vet first and foremost. If there is a chip, someone once cared enough about her to make sure she had a form of ID and maybe, just maybe she has simply been lost for a long time and there's someone out there who loves her and dearly wishes to have her back. It's worth looking into a bit, just incase. If she's a purebred then she is a breed that is often stolen for breeding purposes, and it may even be that this is what occurred and THEN she was dumped if they discovered she had been spayed, or something of the like. That said, if there's no chip, I say f*ck the previous owners. If there's no ID whatsoever AND she's in this poor condition, there's an overwhelming chance someone simply dumped her.

HAHA! There's your solution!

And how! Thanks so much for the info LoveGoddess, very cool

Best compliment from a near-stranger was when someone told me "if I could kiss your brain, I would." I also like compliments on my smile, or my body mods. I actually do not have much appreciation for being called beautiful, or sexy, because my body is not something I work on so I don't feel like it's really a compliment to me, if that makes sense? Best compliment ever was being told "I love you" by someone very special to me.

Marcy Playground Yeah mama this surely is a dream.