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Trimming is certainly the best option but some guys are a bit funny about it. Alternative is to get some yummy lube and slick the hair down and out of the way...

Oh yay! Love to hear how a couple can communicate and make their sex better! You guys are great!

Whatever works for the people involved really. I'd be happy to have my hubby cum on my face - but he prefers to cum elsewhere. Each to their own...

Hi, I'm in Aus too! Enjoy!

I love to see my husband cum... anywhere! The look of bliss on his face is awesome and knowing that I made it happen is very empowering. On the face is great, as is anywhere else

We are about the same age, and I have only just started gushing too! We have a big thick towel that we double up to lay over the bed.

Hi, I can never quite understand the 'not swallowing' thing. I have always done it, never thought not to. Sometimes it tastes saltier than others, but certainly not repulsive in any way. We have also found that a daily dose of pineapple juice can sweeten it a bit. Deep throating is apparently a good technique to use to swallow as the taste/texture miss the mouth. However, one technique she could try is: when kneeling between your legs, as you cum she can lean right over your cock, almost doing a headstand on your belly. That way the cum goes to the roof of her mouth and is less likely to be tasted. Of course, she just might not want to - so you might have to get over it.

I love to wear sexy underwear with stockings as part of regular wear. It isn't practical sometimes, but especially sexy when we are going to dinner etc. I will also put them on especially to lure him to the bedroom. My SO despises pantyhose/tights though! What's your preference? Favorite colors? Anytime or just bedtime? Alternative uses? Do tell...

Love mirrors! Our bedroom window is covered on the outside with shutters, the window on the inside is bare and reflects wonderfully with the lights on. We get a wonderful view...

My DH likes to watch me using it on myself. We have no interest in 3+somes so I guess using a dildo is an opportunity for him to see me getting satisfaction from another perspective. He learns from it, too - angle, pressure etc.

Hi Lizzie, Firstly, don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Secondly, browse through the education and forum sections of this site and read a bit able anal sex and the male prostate. Anal penetration can be pleasurable for men (and women) and it is obviously something that your partner is interested in. Thirdly, talk to him. Let him know if/that you are interested in exploring it if it is something he wants to pursue. Take small steps and make sure you are comfortable with each step. Have fun!

My guess is it's happened by now - but here is my 2 cents anyway! He probably knows it is the first time you've done this, so LOOK at it. Really explore it. Hold it in your hand, feel which way his erection pulls, look at the veins, then lick them, feel the tip with your tongue. Explore him. Run the tip across your lips and cheek. Kiss it. Don't worry so much about doing something TO him. Look at the places where it changes, thicker at the bottom, where the shaft meets the head, use your tongue and hands on those bits and check his reaction. Gradually you will learn that licking one spot will have a greater effect than another and you'll use it! Men have grown up with their cock, but to us it is all new, so get to know it - it has a mind of it's own most of the time anyway!

I would like to make my DH cum by giving him a footjob. I have rubbed him with my feet before but would like any tips, advice and techniques I could try to really do it right. All suggestions and experiences welcome

This one lives only in fantasy. I have no desire to be with another man, and I think the risk to the relationship of sharing a partner are too great.

Yep, that sounds like the kind I like to watch. We have solved the problem by setting up the video - now my favourite sex video is us!

That's so cool. Coming home to a clean house and flowers shows her that you have been thinking about her and planning for her return. No wonder she wanted to do something special for you. Sometimes it is good to remember a request and save it up for later rather than do it straight away. Enjoy!

I love the pressure around my neck. It is not about choking or asphyxiation for me, but the passion. I love for him to lightly pull my hair, grabbing my chin/neck to move my head to access my neck. Really deep, passionate kisses... then he will suddenly stop and lightly lick my lips and smile at me before plunging in again to devour me. It's a bit vampire-like... Always makes me think of the beginning of the Meatloaf song - You Took The Words Right Outta My Mouth: "On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? Will he offer me his mouth? Yes! Will he offer me his teeth? Yes! Will he offer me his jaws? Yes! Will he offer me his hunger? Yes! Again, will he offer me his hunger? Yes! And will he starve without me? Yes! And does he love me? Yes!"

He always pays my legs a lot of attention, licking and kissing all over. Heels are a big plus. We tend to use a lot of positions where my legs are a visual feature or within reach for caressing. For example, my legs are usually in the air! Or I turn sideways when giving a BJ and he will rub and massage my legs and look at my feet/shoes. I make a point of rubbing my legs against his body/back/legs which adds to his arousal. Even in rear entry positions, I can bend my knees to make sure he can hold my feet for leverage or push my feet/heels on his butt. It is more of a visual thing than "using" legs

My DH is more of a leg man so we have never done much titfucking. I will agree that it is a wonderful sight from the woman's perspective - seeing his manhood ploughing through her womanhood.

Ooh , Blush, that does sound good! A light rimming is usually included in all oral for both of us. This is something we have only recently been including and we both enjoy it - strictly straight from the shower.

I always swallow, and can't remember a time when my DH has opted to cum ON me instead of IN me. However, I would be fine with him cumming anywhere on my body within the right circumstances. I mean, getting it all through my hair when we have a sneaky one somewhere is no good. But during one of our home sessions, why not?

You'll need to give him PLENTY of exercise to keep it like that!

I had an Implanon implant between the children and it totally killed by sex drive. It didn't even enter my head! So much so that it took my husband to point out that I NEVER considered having sex. After baby #2 I have had the Mirena IUD with no problems. The tiny amount of hormone is enough to stop me getting periods (yay!) and keep me interested in sex all month! We had previously talked about a vasectomy, but I will keep a Mirena for as long as I'm able!

It is all too true that sometimes life just gets in the way. Having small children can make an enormous difference to your relationship. How you prioritise his needs outside the bedroom may be a factor - I know I always put the children first. My husband understood this, but still harboured some resentment that he was no longer my main focus. This was very difficult for him to express as he loves the children and was ashamed of being jealous of them. Did he witness the birth? This can completely freak some men out. I have friends whose partners won't go near them after seeing them give birth. There is a big psychological barrier there - after seeing their woman in such a way that makes it hard for him to see her as a sexually desirable again. "Mother" and "Sexy" don't really blend well for most men and he may be finding it hard to align his perception of who you are now. My husband also got stressed after the second one arrived about the pressure this put on him to provide for his family. Being the sole income earner with mouths to feed etc. It just took some time, reassurance and understanding all round. His "excuses" may be genuine issues for him. If he is uncomfortable having sex with the baby in the room, move the baby. If he is worried about getting you pregnant again - you need to address the birth control issue together. Most of these are not SEX issues - they are about your life, closeness, relationship. Sex is just a symptom of barriers elsewhere. You need to rebuild the intimacy and the sex will follow. My children are 3 and 6, it is only this year that my husband said to me, "You are the perfect mother, and a wonderful wife. But is has been a long time since you have been such a WOMAN". It is difficult to be all things, and it is hard for both parties to go from wiping baby spit to giving off the sexy vibe! iha is right - he probably hasn't analysed his feelings and behaviour to such an extent as to understand exactly what the cause of the problem is. Talk to him. Raise some of the thoughts you have had, but don't expect an instant resolution. He will probably need a few days to ponder what you say and decide if any of them apply. Communication is always the key.