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now that was a real good one.I'll have to remember that the next time I get stopped.the 135 dollars sure will be worth it.....lol

sorry manofherdreams!couldn't imagine being with someone who was not into oral.what a bummer!

probably both age and experience.never know if you like someting until you try it.also could be the partner they are with.more apt to try something and be ok with it when you are with someone you truly care about.

first off let me say there are NO bad bj's.now there are some better than others.sunflower your pretty right on about bj's.the only thing I would add is find out what he likes.every guy is different.just like you women.and nothing is more intimate than oral sex. my SO and I are fairly new to each other.we have known each other for about 8 months now.but in actuality we have only been together physically for a little over a month(due to 575 miles seperating us).not like you can get together for a weekend.until recently she has not enjoyed giving bj's in the past.partly because of her upbringing and partly because of the 2 jerks she was married to.with them it was everyone for themselves.she was scared as hell the first time giving me a bj.she thought she was too inexperienced and I wouldn't like it.now she has given me 2 of them.WOW!!!!had me squirming.for someone not very experienced she is damn GOOD!! ladies don't be afraid to try.you just might find out you like it and you drive him crazy.as she does me.can't wait for my next one!!.....

have you ever tried denighing her?don't give her oral sex for a couple of weeks to a month and see if she says or does anything.who knows she might just get the idea.can't hurt to try,and you really don't have anything to loose.

I grew up in a small town/farming community.Town had only about 800 people in it.so i know what small town life is like.sure is nice to be back and out of the hustle and bussle of big town life.don't miss the traffic and all the stress that goes along with it either.

why don't you try a longer warm up session.really get her to the point of orgasm before you have actual intercourse.who knows you just might have enough stamina that way to get satisfied together or at least close.

glad you found yourself. my SO also was with an abusive jerk!don't think it affected her as much as you.she was just with guys all her life that didn't care about anyone but themselves.now I am having a great time showing her how much fun 2 people can have sexually.slowly but surely she is comming out of her shell,and I am going to be the recipient of some great sex in the future,as she learns to relax and try new things. as for the guys lke you and she had.....well lets just say round all them up put them on an island and nuke them!hate guys like that!!!!!

now if my SO came up with something like that.....WOW!!!!!I would be all for it.And yes sooner or later she would get nailed.....

if they are caught and are found to be illegal deport them.if they are caught a second time sent them to jail(male or female) for a PERIOD OF 2 YEARS AND HAVE THEM WORK ON NEW ROAD CONSTRUCTION!!!no wages are paid for that period.they only get food and schelter. any baby who is born in this country to an illegal IS NOT and american citizen.DO NOT give them that right. it's time to put a stop to all this illegal nonscence and start closing our borders!!!

nice legs!

no real guilty pleasures.most of all I just like to snuggle and feel her close.feel her boobs still against my chest.and our warm bodies still close together.

first off how old is your hubby?if he is in his 50's he might have lost some of his sex drive.if as you describe he ever had any to begin with.then with his upbringing and what he was taught you might need to go to a councelor to get him over that.somehow you need to convince him sex is fun and enjoyable. good luck....and think about the councelor idea.

thanks shortstuff.I'm sure we will be very happy together.I know most all men think they have the best.I know I sure do.couldn't be happier.

never had a bad bj.now I have had some better than other but never had a bad one.and I have had quite a few.everyone had his likes and dislikes as far as bj's go.and everyone is different as far as actually giving a bj.just as long as there is no serious biting....lay back relax and enjoy!!!

I am not mew to this site.Have been on here for almost 6 months.Just wanted to let everyone know I have moved to a smaller town in south eastern Idaho.The reason for this move is that my SO and I are now together full time.Sure alot better than seeing each other once every 2 months are so.That sure sucked big time!!!

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I'm not to sure she has bailed on him emotionally.Physically she certainly has for some reason.It's not like she doesn't like sex(because she still self indulges).For some reason she just doesn't want that part of closeness anymore. As we all know women and men look upon physical intimacy in different perspectives.It's much easier for a man to have recreational sex(sex without any emotion involved)than it is for a women.For most women there has to be more than physical attraction.For some reason she doesn't want that particular involvement anymore.He needs to find out why.Be it through a good sit down heart to heart talk with her,or through counceling.Once he knows all her reasons for not having that physical intimacy anymore,and wherher or not she will change.Then he has to make a very hard decision on whether or not to stay in the relationship any longer.

I'm like you are Dwane.To me going down on my SO is as much a part of the sexual act as kissing.Now I don't do it every time.But alot more often than not.

never had one with my dad.for me it was all on the job training.probably alot much more fun that way also....lol

you are absolutely right.most men are ready/hot with just a little stimulatin.time for the main course. on the other hand most women take far longer to be ready for the main course.watch her listen to her breathing and watch how her body starts to move and react to different stimulous.most assuradly take your time and don't rush things.slower is better and and by soing so it will get much hotter and intense.

so what do you think is the major difference between women and men as far as getting hot for sex.are there anything we can do so we are both set and hot when it comes time to become intimate with our partner. why does it take women longer(usually)to get turned on and ready for a sexual encounter with their SO?What can men do to help speed up this process,and what can women do to slow us guys down?

well maybe all the new members on here can come up with new ideas for new topics.maybe we should only allow new posts that include topics on only sexual matters. how about a new contest where only new sexual topice are alloweed?

good post shortstuff!!I fully agree with you on taking your time and working up to it.my So is interested in trying anal and like you is not experienced in it.we have not been together physically very long and have not yet attemted and anal play.though I know she is interested in it.when we do I will work up to it the same way as you described.slow and easy with toy play first.

I think a dominant starts with personality.I am a dominant and I do have an A type personality.It goes all the way back to grade school,and has continued and become more forcefull as I have matured. Now I'm not saying every dominant has a total A type personality,but I do think the ones that do have a much easier time being dominant in the bdsm lifestyle. Once again there are certain web sites that can help someone become either a dominant or sub.Check our fetlife,or bdsmlibrary.Talk to other people on those sites and you will get the infortmation you need to become what you want to be. Good luck,and happy playing.