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Okay so I am scared to say anything. Wow. We have some passion in this forum huh? I too love a good spanking. I love it when he has me tied up, blindfolded, and all I can hear are the sounds around me. I orgasm as soon as the blindfold goes on. He tells me, "what's all the excitement for, we're only getting started" another orgasm. I know he would never hurt me. Well there was the one time with the candle wax when he burned my tit but it was purely accidental and we new to the wax thing were using REAL candlewax. For anyone who hasn't been tied up. I would say try it. But like Mikayla said, TRUST is key to enjoyment. But you know being tied up isn't always so "dominating". Like sometimes we leave the blindfold off and whoever is not tied up touches the other in erotic ways, performs oral sex, plays with toys, and well, for me, it was just more personal. It's like he is still in control (or vice versa) but he's gentle. That can be great too. But I gotta say, when that blindfold goes on.....Spank me, tease me, thrill me, please me![/

The first time I swallowed I thought I was going to puke. I did the coke thing that Howard talked about. For awhile, I'd kill half a coke in about ten seconds flat. Over time, I got used to the taste, the feel, and now, it just comes naturally I remember the first time I didn't drink coke aferwards. My hubby looked at me and then at the coke. I said, "Damn, that was good, got anymore?" lol. We both started laughing. Practice makes perfect...so keep on trying and eventually one day, you'll swallow like a pro. lol.

Do what you've done here. Talk to her. Tell her EXACTLY what you have told us in this last post. If I were your wife and you could be this honest and open with me, I would be willing to try it at least once. Still, you do need to give her some time to adjust to the idea of it if she is willing. (Meaning don't expect it within seconds of discussion should she agree.) I think we all want sex at some time or another like they have in the movies...It's passioniate, erotic, thrilling, exciting, almost perfect in a sense-but that's the thing. It's a movie. These people get paid to be good and look good, and to let people cumm on their faces. So IF she should agree to this, don't expect it to be like you see in the porns, although you may be surprised IMO...(It could be the most thrilling moment of your oral sex life). Anyhow, wish I knew more to tell ya but I don't. If she doesn't want it, then it is my opinion that you should accept that and let it rest where it originated, in your fantasies. As you can see, she is not the only woman in the world who feels that way. To each his/her own.

I would suggest keeping a written journal of the pain. Times of day. Intensity of pain and any other symptoms. Set an appt. with your gynecologist to discuss this. He/She would know more than anyone what to do.

Freeatlast, you will survive. And after 32 years hey, you deserve a break and a fresh breath of air. Right? I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you were expecting or hoping for it too. But you're right, YOU ARE STRONG! Now, if you're ready to move on...Move on. There is no rule carved in stone that says you have to cry, though if you do, it's not the worst thing in the world either. When you feel better you should check out some more posts in some of the other great forums here. We have lots of exciting things that are sure to get your mind where it belongs. On sex! lol. Seriously, don't be shy. If you want to talk more about this, we can. and if you want, we will. There are many posts on here I am sure you would love. It doesn't matter what age you are. We are all people, who have loved, been loved, wanna be loved again, and wanna know how to get there. This site and the people here are with you always. Hang in there.

Read the article lacking libido in sex education articles.

"Give and ye shall recieve my friend". I love giving my hubby head. Just as much as he loves giving me oral sex. Sometimes, we play a little game of who gave who the best orgasm. Kinda like a competition. If that doesn't work,then try something like "catering" to her needs for awhile. IF she still doesn't want to after that, the only thing I can suggest is to enjoy what you do get and perhaps invest in a pocket pussy. I don't know how good they are. Ask Mikayla. She will be able to tell you lots about your options because afterall, she is the sex educator here, and a damned good one at that. Good luck with this! P.S. You didn't really specify which part exactly she doesn't like about it. Does she gag? If so that could be your problem. Let her suck on the head only for awhile without being "forced" to go down. Also, I don't know what her life is like (busy or not) but maybe she's tired and just needs a little rest. As I said. Talk to Mikayla. You'll be glad you did.

LMAO! This was one of the first fantasies that we lived out together. He had me tied up and STUPID US! We DID use a regular candle and it burned the shit out of my nipples. lol. Then it wasn't so funny but looking back...I see how much we have learned. All I can say is I thank God he didn't put it on my clit that day because had I had to go to the hospital-I would never have lived it down. It was bad enough that my nipples were so irritated. They were tender and sore for about two weeks. It felt a lot like a really bad sunburn. When he first did it he thought it (my screaming) was part of the game and that I was just "playing" along", but after a couple of seconds when my titty started turning a bright red, I think he got the message. He felt really bad about it but there was really nothing he could do. What happened happened. Live and learn I guess.

I don't know about other women but personally I never inserted mine and don't think that I would. lol. (FOR ME)I would only use it for external stimulation like around the clitoris. I'm not saying it's weird or gross because it's not. I guess I have the same fear as you.lol.

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Hi and welcome to the forum:) Here you can and will learn many things which is one the greatest things about the site. We do have some GREAT people here too who can and will help you with any questions or concerns you may have. I look forward to reading your posts!

Okay. Not trying to hijack the thread but I just gotta know cause maybe I've done it or maybe I haven't but I gotta know what is a pearl necklace Nymph?

As a woman I don't know lots of women (with the exception of pornos including amatuer) who do that. Personally, I don't have a problem with it but you have to think, what if it gets in your eyes? lol. Everyone has their turn-on's and their turn-offs as well. You think she gives a wonderful blow job right? Some things need to be left within the "fantasy" realm of things and for her maybe this is one of them. It sounds like this is really bothering you a lot. Lighten up a little. Try other things. Like will she let you come on her chest or her stomach? If not, DON'T feel upset. Fantasy is a wonderful thing. And in my opinion she's doesn't think you or your cumm is nasty, cumm on the face just isn't her style and that is fine. Like IHA said, you CANNOT force someone to do something they don't want to do. Don't take it personal. It's who she is and what she is comfortable with. She is your wife and I am sure she has at times done things for your pleasure...My advice is to respect her feelings on this because if Sex, even oral, becomes a touchy subject for the two of you....there could be a whole lot less "touching" in the future. It's good that you share your fantasies with her....but as I mentioned before....Some things are better left in the same way they come....this fantasy being one of them.

Hi, and welcome to Too Timid..... You've made a good start by introducing yourself. Don't be afraid. Just jump right in there and post away! Hope you learn lots and who knows, maybe we'll learn something from you too!

I think that maybe something like, "Spice" for those who have been married for a long time who are committed to a one on one relationship who are looking for new things to keep thier sex lives healthy. That is a huge reason that a lot of people come here, me for one plus I love to read everyone's posts and of course post back to them. lol. Of course you may want a different name for it if you went that route. It was just the first thing that popped into my head. Another is "Guy World". I read an article the other day and it sprung lots of questions in my mind like why do men do this or say that and so forth, but I don't know if this is the place to say okay, this is really what is going on in your lovers head????? I really like the ideas that Tyger had with Romancing the Stone. It's similar to the one I had about "spice". And then you know there is always room to add for learning with a "Sex tip of the Week" forum where a sex tip would be posted and the members could discuss it for that week. I think I would like most the last one or the one about keeping the romance in your marriage/relationship because those are basic concerns for me and many others I think. Another idea is the Most embarrassing moments in sex.With that one everyone would pretty much post their experience and put it up for discussion/feedback.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry. If you need or want to talk, feel free to PM me. Lots of other members and moderators on the site are great to talk to as well. I'll be thinking about ya.

It's like some foods that you "acquire" a taste for. lol. Seriously. Watch what you eat before she gives you a BJ because some foods DO affect the taste of semen. Example: Eggs, some seafoods, Onions, garlic, broccoli, cabbage make it taste bitter. (I PROMISE). To make it taste sweeter try pineapple juice. Any juice for that matter because most are high in sugar content. You could also try to eat more cinnamon. It usually takes about 2-3 days before it actually secretes into your semen. Good Luck!

I AM SO SORRY!!!! I hit the wrong button!

Okay. When me and my hubby first got together we rented this drab little number to call our living space. Anyhow, these were the days when we fucked every waking minute of the day that we could find. Well, on this particular day, we had sex for hours. (I promise I am not exaggerating. You have to remember we were both "new" to one another at this time. Anyhow we had done some pretty kinky stuff and I think I maybe moaned a little too loud or perhaps a little too much lol because when we get done, we haven't even got our clothes on yet and there is a knock on the door. (We were in the living room btw doing all this). Well, I grab my clothes and take off running and hide behind the wall (hallway) until I get my clothes on. My hubby threw on some shorts and answered the door. I heard her ask to borrow a cigarette and didn't think anything about it...then she said. God what is that smell I love it! (Right as I was walking into the living room). Immediately my face and his face get red as we are looking at one another and all I can come up with is "I think it's called Sex on the Beach or something." She said Damn, I have got to get me some of that because I don't even smoke but listening to you two made me have to have a cigarette. LMAO. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thinking back, I think that was only the second time we had ever met her at the time. lol Anyone got any of thier own stories to share?

Welcome to the forum where Naughty is something Nice! Glad you're here and hope to read some of your posts soon!

Howard, Just wanted to say I loved your article. As far as the moaning sometimes we laugh when he cumms because the moan is so hard and so intense. If you've ever seen scary movie, it's kinda like when they are doing it and he cumms and it's so powerful it blows her to the cieling.

Thanks. I like yours too

Nice Bod! And such Bravery! Are you a firefighter by any chance? You know they always run in while everyone else is running out?

Ummmm.....I think for that one we need a cigar! VERY GOOD!!!!