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Welcome to TooTimid! Hope you enjoy!

I have to agree with Iha. If you have this many concerns and issues about doing this, you are not ready. It takes a VERY strong relationship to be able to do this. I don't believe it is to be done with any doubt in one's mind! I think maybe you already know that you are not really into this.

So far I haven't hit anyone's car - *knock on wood* - but I think I would be too scared of getting caught if I DIDN'T leave a note! Someone is always watching!

Synirr, honey, I agree with you! You couldn't have said it any better! No offense, Gene, but this sight may not be exactly what you are looking for or what you think it is - sorry, Bud...

YUM! I would really like to try some of these flavors. Glad it worked for you - good to know!

Really looking forward to one of these, too! Hey, Meg... *wink, wink*

Welcome to TT! You will find that many others here share your passion for writing!

Sorry to hear this happened to you and your children. A couple of summers ago, my son (1 1/2 years at the time) developed an ear infection which was detected at a routine doctor visit, though my son had never even complained or shown any symptoms. He was given an antibiotic. We returned to the doctor a week later. Apparently the pediatrician's work load was too much, as he had hired two nurses to begin seeing some of his newer patients. The infection was no better, so one of the nurses gave him another antibiotic. Next visit - another nurse and ANOTHER Rx! Well, I was really beginning to get pissed at this point. Next visit - someone else trying to give us a fourth antibiotic! How was my son ever going to be able to fight off anything else if he got sick after taking all these antibiotics?! I told them "absolutely not - please refer us to a specialist!" I was beginning to think he was needing tubes placed in his ears, as my husband and sister-in-law had. ENT doc said I was right, and put the tubes in - never another problem. I wish now that I had never let it go that far. I should have demanded to see only his real doctor or an ENT doc - not a different nurse everytime who apparently was not looking back at his chart! You can bet that I refuse to let my son be seen by anyone except his doctor since then! So you see, even if you had gone straight to the doctor, that doesn't mean they would have done the right thing either. And, no one should have expected you to know her ear drum would burst - my son never complained the whole time this was going on, never showed the first symptom. It is really crappy that they spoke to you that way. You did nothing wrong IMO. Some people just shouldn't be in the medical profession. Hope your children are feeling better soon.

Nice review! Welcome to the forum! Looking forward to more reviews from you!

I thought this would would make a good question, but figured it had probably been asked before in the past. I did a little research, and sure enough, Mikayla beat me to this one over 2 years ago! Anyway, I thought it might be worth bringing up again since there are so many of us new posters out there and more everyday! My first toy was actually intended to be a back massager! I finally got a real "sex toy" a few years ago: "Waterplay," a dual stimulator, much like a rabbit. Pretty intimidating for a first toy, but I guess I just wanted to get the real thing if I was going to get one! Many toys later, it is still the one I go to as my "sure thing, guaranteed O!"

I believe cock rings generally are intended to be put on the penis while it is semi-hard/soft. This is how they keep the erection longer. Sorry it didn't work for you.

It is very likely that the school cannot afford/budget for the protective gear, but therefore, should not have bought the sticks and pucks then let the game be played. When I was in 5th grade, we played dodge ball and basketball - cheap to buy equipment for these games and not nearly as dangerous. Spread the word to as many parents as you can. If my child were in the same class as yours, I would appreciate the information. Also, I would put scar ointment on her lip as soon as her stitches are out. What's that stuff called? Mederma for kids?

I, too, am from the South, but I still firmly believe that no one should be embarrassed by sex! I understand that you two have been trained to feel this way in childhood, but you are an adult now and are married. You two have every right to be having sex together and ENJOYING it! The would be something wrong if you weren't! Since you have now shed a little more light into your lives, I now think it is your beliefs about sex that caused him to think he needed to lie - like he had done something immoral. What he was doing is perfectly natural. However, I do agree with you about the lying. That part was wrong, but again, his background may have a lot to do with that. If the two of you are becoming interested in toys and games, but are too embarrassed to shop for them at Spencer's (they haven't much selection anyway!) then you are in the right place. TooTimid is very discrete about shipping orders - I live in AL and my mailman has never looked at me funny! I think you have a great attitude about really just wanting to share this with him. Have fun exploring and good luck!

The lying is something I would definitely have a problem with also. I always say, "I can deal with whatever you did, but I cannot deal with you lying to me about it." That goes for anyone! I have known other people to have similar arguements about porn. I believe it is natural to want to view such things. However, lying about it is unexceptable. Still, he may have just been embarrassed that he got caught. And, he may truely believe you would be upset enough for it to damage the relationship. I think sometimes men lie because they think it will solve a problem or avoid a larger arguement - many people do this in general, for that matter. Sometimes when someone gets caught doing something taboo, the first reaction is to lie about it to avoid embarrassment or consequences. Hope everything turns out okay for you and that this is something you two are able to talk through. Good Luck!

There is another company (sorry TT!) that makes a lube called "Vanilla Cupcake." We used a 4oz bottle in about 3 weeks! It is sooo yummy!! I love anything vanilla or chocolate.

Welcome to the forum! A LOT of people don't exactly feel sexy after having a child! Let's face it, you may be adjusting to a new body and you are TIRED! Believe me, I know! However, you have found a great place here. There is plenty to learn and read on this site, and the more you read, learn, and think about it, the sooner you will get it back! Keep reading and keep posting! There is always someone here to answer just about any question.

IMO, the Friends-With-Benifits deal is not something you are really going to find easily without someone developing feelings and eventually ruining a friendship. When I was about your age, I found only one person that this ever worked with. I had a friend who I could hook up with, and we actually were ONLY friends and never ruined the friendship. No one ever knew what we were up to, and we remained good friends until each of us moved away and lost contact. I tried this situation with two other people, and someone always got hurt or the friendship was damaged. I do not recommend trying this unless you are absolutely positive that the friendship can withstand the stress and strain - or unless you are absolutely sure that sex is all you want and all he wants. It can get pretty ugly if you are not both honestly on the same level. Also, he may actually like you and be thinking of more than just sex with you, or you may have just confused the hell out of him! Good luck!

Glad to hear that things are improving for you! I think it is great that you are trying so hard to save your marriage and that now your wife seems to be also. Too many people give up too quickly on their marriages, IMO. Good luck to you.

I would take that as a compliment, too, Aiden. I have a gargoyle with a 2 foot wingspan in my living room! He's supposed to go outside, but I am too afraid someone will steal him!

Welcome to the forum!!

iha, I like that!

Love the review!! Tyger, what are you doing to get them to keep sending you all these glass toys?! They are something I am dying to try, but alas, I can't afford them!

Welcome! There is a lot to be learned here - enjoy! Yes, it is addictive if you have the time!

I have experienced "scary BIG" before - I would rather have someone a bit on the smaller side anyday! I have also had someone fairly small but knew well what to do with it. Having some skill and being attentive in bed are definitely more important to me than a large penis. Lucky for me, my husband's got both in the bag (or the sack, I should say)!

Oh, iha, please write something! I have never seen this thread - I had no idea how many people were also into vampires! Huge Anne Rice fan here! Too bad she stopped writing the "dark stories"... I do so miss Louis and Lestat!