Do Men Perfer "hot" Or "sexy"

[Lady007]

I have always wondered, do men perferr HOT or Sexy. THere is quite a difference. HOT is being physically flawless. Firm tits, nice ass, flat belly, pleasantly formed p***y, ect. Now sexy is a woman that carries herself well. She may not have a porn star body, but she enjoys her body, and allows others to enjoy it with her. She's comfortable with herself and knows how to turn herself on and is not distracted with herself that she has the ablitity to turn on others as well. Well, my question is, what is it that men perfer? HOT or Sexy? Answers, Please

[silver beard]

I have always wondered, do men perferr HOT or Sexy. THere is quite a difference. HOT is being physically flawless. Firm tits, nice ass, flat belly, pleasantly formed p***y, ect. Now sexy is a woman that carries herself well. She may not have a porn star body, but she enjoys her body, and allows others to enjoy it with her. She's comfortable with herself and knows how to turn herself on and is not distracted with herself that she has the ablitity to turn on others as well. Well, my question is, what is it that men perfer? HOT or Sexy? Answers, Please

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Sexy for sure. It is better to have good sex, not just some ne to look at

[SexyMuze]

Hi, I use to be Hot, As I got older and in my 30's I feel I have Reached Sexy. It really takes time for girl to become a women to become Sexy. I love turning Men on where ever I go, Just by the way I hold my self, & the Eye contact, & the body langauge is sooooo Important. I feel I have a good body to look at, I run and exercise everyday, However its the way I walk & talk that turns men on. Not to mention the red hair, blue eyes & big boobs A girl that thinks she's hot is great, good for her, However being hot doesn't make you sexy, Sometimes when a girl thinks that she's hot & try's to be sexy, You can cross the line & become Skanky. So be carefull. Short tops, Even shorter skirts are hot, not sexy. To answer your question , I have found that young guys (boys) like to be with girls that are hot, Men like to be with women that are sexy & look at the ones that are hot.

Hope this helps

[tim@tmgdesigns]

Sexy for sure. You can have a very average looking woman that is confidant and she will be increadably irresstable.

[KNIGHTDJ]

Hot versus Sexy is this for real? It sounds like the bar scene. I feel that it takes both to be a W-O-M-A-N! Hot does not mean perfect it is the total person and the way she reflects her self inwardly and outwardly honestly no game playing. Sexy is an extention of hot she does not have to prove anything she knows and shares it all when she wants. I've never been a looker but women know that I am all I profess and say I am that truely sexy, so I'm told!

[bbl993]

sexy for sure. granted i'm 23 i perfer the more profesional sophisticated type. I've have gf's in the past that weren't "h ot" but managed to have a good relationship

[Jeremy]

sexy for sure. granted i'm 23 i perfer the more profesional sophisticated type. I've have gf's in  the past that weren't "h ot" but managed to have a good relationship

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I got lucky my gf is both, and personality I think thats amazing!

[admiraltolokus]

Neither for me, I know what I want and according to my friends what I want is neither. There are these ladies i have found in which i see as absolutely the most wonderful peope to around even to just stand next to, and they are what my friends consider to be: average, dont like her hair, dont like her eyes, why isnt she a blonde man? and so forth like that... but for me i dont think i could compare hot and sexy when it comes to women.

[s2bthomas]

I believe that I am hot and sexy. Now I don't have much of a body. But I am ok with that and that shines through me. Men can tell when they look at me that I am sure of myself. And althogh I don't have many curves (They way you think most men want you to look) I always have men telling me how Hot, beautiful and sexy I am. Even after they find out I am getting married they don't stop. Now don't get me wrong my face is very attractive I'm not just some plain Jane. But the point I'm trying to make is that it doesn't take boobs and booty to make someone HOT. Its really the person behind the boobs and booty. Thats my belief anyway

ME

[tim@tmgdesigns]

I believe that I am hot and sexy. Now I don't have much of a body. But I am ok with that and that shines through me. Men can tell when they look at me that I am sure of myself. And althogh I don't have many curves (They way you think most men want you to look) I always have men telling me how Hot, beautiful and sexy I am. Even after they find out I am getting married they don't stop. Now don't get me wrong my face is very attractive I'm not just some plain Jane. But the point I'm trying to make is that it doesn't take boobs and booty to make someone HOT. Its really the person behind the boobs and booty. Thats my belief anyway

 

ME

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Good for you. Its refreshing to see that kind of confidence.

[hunter]

I have always wondered, do men perferr HOT or Sexy. THere is quite a difference. HOT is being physically flawless. Firm tits, nice ass, flat belly, pleasantly formed p***y, ect. Now sexy is a woman that carries herself well. She may not have a porn star body, but she enjoys her body, and allows others to enjoy it with her. She's comfortable with herself and knows how to turn herself on and is not distracted with herself that she has the ablitity to turn on others as well. Well, my question is, what is it that men perfer? HOT or Sexy? Answers, Please

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[hunter]

I have always wondered, do men perferr HOT or Sexy. THere is quite a difference. HOT is being physically flawless. Firm tits, nice ass, flat belly, pleasantly formed p***y, ect. Now sexy is a woman that carries herself well. She may not have a porn star body, but she enjoys her body, and allows others to enjoy it with her. She's comfortable with herself and knows how to turn herself on and is not distracted with herself that she has the ablitity to turn on others as well. Well, my question is, what is it that men perfer? HOT or Sexy? Answers, Please

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[admiraltolokus]

I SAY SEXY! hehe, i mean hell i dont have a porn star's body, so ill go with sexy because i believe that so long as she knows herself then it will be good for us, or something like that..

[hunter]

Even though hot women are great to look at they seem to be more intrested in how they apear to themselves than how they look to others. Of course thats why there so hot. They work at it. Sexy women want others attention.They want guys to enjoy what they have to offer.Sometimes good sometimes bad,but at least there trying to please us. Theres nothing better than to watch a well groomed lady walking down the street & swinging her back side.I dont care if its a little big ,a little small ,or just right, Im going to look at it & enjoy every step.

[Chris4u]

I always prefer sexy over hot. Some people thing that the two are one and the same or closely related. I've been with totally red hot girls and they can be just plain boring and self-centered. The term hot can be used in so many ways, but for this forums sake I'm going to keep it to physical appearance.

You see, I think you can be sexy and move to the level of hot. It's all about body language, and sexy girls know how to use this to drive the guys crazy. I've found at times that an above average and even an average looking girl can transform themselves, in my eyes, to one of the hottest girls in the room, just from the pouring of raw sexuality.

Hot can't compete with sexy, only if the girl has both.

[SHEABUTTER]

I totally agree with howard4570. Paris Hilton is HOT! She has the typical body that most teens and women probably would dream to have. But being SEXY is different. The Sex in the City women are Sexy. Destiny's Child are Sexy. Jennifer Anniston is Sexy. Jennifer Lopez and even Oprah are sexy. Queen Latifah and Kim Coles are sexy. Shit, people probably think Donald Trump is sexy! But why? Because they carry themselves with a type of dignity. They are not trying to hard to be sexy it just comes natural. Tara Reid is not sexy she's hot. But Tara Reid has no common sense. Sexy people kind of show sexiness through their personalities and even their workmanship. So if I was a guy and had to choose between a sexy and hot, it would totally depend on what type of relationship i'm looking for.

[Matthew Dark]

Yeah, definetly sexy. hot girls might be okay to look at, but I don't even fantasize about them because, when I think about it, I don't find them attractive. but sexy girls DO carry themselves differently and the way they walk/talk/act/smile, etc. is what is REALLY attractive rather than just their body.

[12GAUGE]

wwww ooooo wwww

[allit]

Sexy without a doubt.

[Mikayla1]

This post was before my time here. Well, I was a woman who I believe was HOT and SEXY...and now I would say I am sexy. When I was a model, for that brief time, my body was definitely HOT - but I had that inner sexy attitude that I have still today - only it is more refined and fine-tuned today.

After 8 years, a baby, a c-section, and gravity taking its slow pull on things - I know I can be SEXY if I feel sexy inside. While some people might not find me HOT anymore, I do think that many people definitely still think I am sexy, especially my hubby, who tells me all the time...

So for me, sexy is a more everlasting quality...and that is why I am proud to consider myself sexy, and I wish more women consider themselves sexy too!

Mikayla

[nosleepnmesa]

I had to ask my hubby on this question. He said,"Sexy is so much better then hot." A women can be hot but then her attitude and the way she carries herself can make her ugly. I think I have been blessed even after having 5 kids, for some odd ball reason I am still HOT and Sexy, says alot of my friends and of course my hubby, my ass is still tight, my tits are still firm, age must have not taken its toll on me yet. My body is still in the same great shape is was before I had any kids. Maybe it is the Germany in me I don't know, my mother had 13 of us and her body is still the same when she was a teen, just her face got older.

I personally have to say SEXY wins, for the same reason my hubby stated.

[telecom69]

I had to ask my hubby on this question. He said,"Sexy is so much better then hot." A women can be hot but then her attitude and the way she carries herself can make her ugly. I think I have been blessed even after having 5 kids, for some odd ball reason I am still HOT and Sexy, says alot of my friends and of course my hubby, my ass is still tight, my tits are still firm, age must have not taken its toll on me yet. My body is still in the same great shape is was before I had any kids. Maybe it is the Germany in me I don't know, my mother had 13 of us and her body is still the same when she was a teen, just her face got older.

I personally have to say SEXY wins, for the same reason my hubby stated.

It would definitely be SEXY for me. Awhile after I was over my divorce I went on a dating spree and went out with many women over about six months. Some were hot perfect hard bodies, and some were sexy regular mother types. At least for me it was the average woman who didn't have the perfect body who I found to be more overall appealing and sexy vs the hard body hot ladies. I agree about the attitude thing to. The majority of the hot hard bodies had an attitude I didn't care for either. Confidence is great, but arrogant is ugly.

Telecom

[trickychick]

Well, I consider myself sexy rather than hot, Ive never been conventional, and am not 'conventionally' hot (unless you are a goth, then we're talking!) what with white skin that will NOT tan , dark (non blond)hair, bit of cellulite, dry skin attacks, sometimes fit, sometimes un-fit, and having 3 pregnancies and the flat chest and slightly loose stomach, I am no Beyonce, BUT I have NEVER lacked male attention, and you know, the cream of the crop not any old guys, the most desirable guys in 'my scene' I had no problem, and I know damn well why, beacuse Im sexy thats why!!! So I know I dont need a perfect bod to be attractive..

I have noticed in music videos, that some women are very sexy and some just look hot but dont give off any sexy vibes....the pussycat dolls are a good example, I consider all but one of them to be sexy, but Paris Hilton - zero. Pamela anderson - sexy.

Im SURE its the way you walk, talk, use your eyes and body, the vibes you give off.... So to answer the question, i think sexy is best, as hot is eye candy, and you dont have to be hot to be sexy...I know men look me over even now when dragging 3 kids round the shops on a saturday, and as that woman said, its

BETTER TO BE LOOKED OVER THAN OVERLOOKED!!!!!!!!!

[allit]

Well, I consider myself sexy rather than hot, Ive never been conventional, and am not 'conventionally' hot (unless you are a goth, then we're talking!) what with white skin that will NOT tan , dark (non blond)hair, bit of cellulite, dry skin attacks, sometimes fit, sometimes un-fit, and having 3 pregnancies and the flat chest and slightly loose stomach, I am no Beyonce, BUT I have NEVER lacked male attention, and you know, the cream of the crop not any old guys, the most desirable guys in 'my scene' I had no problem, and I know damn well why, beacuse Im sexy thats why!!! So I know I dont need a perfect bod to be attractive..

I have noticed in music videos, that some women are very sexy and some just look hot but dont give off any sexy vibes....the pussycat dolls are a good example, I consider all but one of them to be sexy, but Paris Hilton - zero. Pamela anderson - sexy.

Im SURE its the way you walk, talk, use your eyes and body, the vibes you give off.... So to answer the question, i think sexy is best, as hot is eye candy, and you dont have to be hot to be sexy...I know men look me over even now when dragging 3 kids round the shops on a saturday, and as that woman said, its

BETTER TO BE LOOKED OVER THAN OVERLOOKED!!!!!!!!!

Until I met my asawa, who is extremely hot! and extremely sexy! The most turned on I've been was in 1993 at the Korner Klub bar. My ex-wife was with me. She was extremely hot, but not sexy at all. The couple I think wanted a foursome. At that time it would have been fine with me because we sure didn't have a love life. She had small breast and though I would not call her overweight she surely had no curves. But she dressed in a way that really turned me on. She wore a shirt loose enough so you could see her nice black bra and must of her nice nubbins. Much less than an A cup, but made me hard still. She showed enough of her waist that made my mouth water just wanting to go down on her. On a scale from one to ten; Hot=5, Sexy=10+. I certainly would have preferred her over Paris Hilton.

[hrnychick]

Ok first I just have to address the Paris Hilton comments on here,,,,,,besides being skinny and ofcourse rich what is it about her??? Guess I just dont see it cause im NOT a guy. Another thing I would like to add is that women that I consider HOT like Pam Anderson (fake but hot) never seem to have a lasting realtionship now I know some may say " oh thats HOLLYWOOD" whatever but even in our real lives im sure we all know or have come accross someone we thought "has it all" and for some reason cant have a nice loving lasting realtionship. I know girls that some of my males friends thought were H=O=T to no end but after a date or two said otherwise......Even my best friend who always seem to have no problem getting the guys.....I thought would end up married and happy early in life but it was me who married first....and she was single and very unhappy asking me all the time whats wrong with her that she just cant find someone to be happy with......she would break up with them or them with her........it seemed like everyone around her was in a relationship or getting married and she was the only one who wasnt......like I said she got the guys attention....and she did date a lot but something just never clicked and I was surprised as I said I thought she would have been married long before I. Well she did end up finding her Mr. Right and is now married but she had many years of tears and self doubt.

I have been around girls that when they walked into a room EVERYGUY looked and checked her out......it was soooo obvious......ummm maybe it was because of the low cut tops short shorts skirts barely covering the ass......to me that might me hot to some but its skanky to me......I would say sexy over HOT anyday..........and I consider myself sexy.....hubby likes all that I have to offer and thats what really matters.

Hrnychick