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Well, I had oral sex at what I considered an early age..15. I did not have vaginal sex til I was 19. I've had more partners than fingers on my hands...lol.

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Now dont laugh me off the forum here but I was 18 before I had intercourse and only one partner.........married few yrs later and been together ever since........He LOVED the fact that he was the one and only........and it really turns him on to know that im some of my firsts are with him.....first time watching porn.....first time using a toy.......and the one he loves the most first time for anal..........What a lucky guy........LOL

and my age now.......I just turned 36

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Started way too young, we were both 13. It was the last day of school and we wouldn't see each other all summer. Imagine, two 'good' Catholic school kids in the back seat of a Rambler in broad daylight on a street in Brooklyn - ahh, the good old days!

Well I'm 55 now and have had fewer partners than I have years, but that inludes one marriage and a few relationships during which I was faithful.

The best part is that, after so many years and all that sex, I'm still learning and definitely still having fun!

Robert

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OK, I had oral sex with a female friend of mine when I was 11 / 12 - we had snuck into her Dad's porn cabinet and were intrigued by the oral sex - we used saran wrap so we wouldn't actually "taste" each other. I still think I invented the dental dam all those years ago! Anyway, gave my first of MANY subsequent BJ's when I was 16, had sex with the same guy when I was 18 right after graduation (anyone surprised?)

Then, I have had only 8 partners who were male - and 3 female - 2 of these partners I was engaged 2, and 1 I married! 2 or these men, and 1 women, were during 3-somes so do they count the same?????

So my totals are:

9 men

4 women

__________

13

total

Not bad I would say!

Mikayla :blink:

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Okay I was 14 when I when I lost my virginity. Gave my first blowjob at 15. Okay now I am going to get laughed off the forum maybe. :blink: I stayed with the guy that took or shall I say gave my virginity to tell for 7 Yrs and also married him at 18. I have only been with 5men and 1 female my best friend and out of those men I was married 1 of them and was engaged two 2 of them and the other two where in a 3some and the female is my best friend in a threesome.

total:

5Men

1female

_________

6 total

Wow I must be a weirdo LOL

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Y'all should not feel bad! I am 24 and I was 24 when I lost my virginity to my fiancee. :) Before that all I had experienced was some light touching. My fiancee is my first for everything else: oral, vaginal, anal, bdsm, all of it. :) So if anyone's getting laughed at, it's me. I didn't have any religious convictions holding me back from having sex. I just hadn't found the right man. I needed someone that would take control and not give me time for my doubts to take over. If I had said no, I know he would've respected that, he just didn't give me time for my nerves to take over. Which is just what I needed. :)

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Total lovers: 9, all men.

Have always wanted to try with a female though.

I did do heavy petting with 3 other guys, but no intercourse or oral sex there.

I lost my virginity at age 16, in one of my best friend's bed. :rolleyes:

First blowjob when I was 17, with my third partner.

I am 33 now.

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Hmmm, i am 26.

Lost my virginity Christmas night, age 16, in front of my best friends Christmas tree, to her brother (who was my age by the way). That was the first BJ too.

Ive had 12 partners, al men, all but 5, sadly, were one night stands, 1 was my exhusband.

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Hmm, first BJ was around age 16 or 17. I think 17. I lost my virginity at age 18, with another guy, and have been with him for the past few years. So just one, unfortunately for now. Its a serious relationship, and I kind of wish I had more sexual partners since this relationship seems like its headed toward marriage.

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Now dont laugh me off the forum here but I was 18 before I had intercourse and only one partner.........married few yrs later and been together ever since........He LOVED the fact that he was the one and only........and it really turns him on to know that im some of my firsts are with him.....first time watching porn.....first time using a toy.......and the one he loves the most first time for anal..........What a lucky guy........LOL

and my age now.......I just turned 36

Just wanted to add to my previous post that I had done handjobs, blowjobs, and tittyfuck starting at age 15.......Thanks for not laughing me off the forum

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i lost my virginity at age 20 i had 5 partners and out of those 5 one became my husband and first BJ was my wedding night im 36 in 2days

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O.K., this is a very tricky question, because I am not really sure when I lost my virginity :o . No, I am not dumb, and don't look at me like I'm stupid (like you can actually see me, LOL :lol: )

I have always been very curious about sex and boys, since I was about 7 or 8. I loved to play doctor and house a lot (you know, I'll be the mommy, you be the daddy :) ) I remember when I was about 8 I tried to have sex with a friend, but I don't remember if He actually got it in, because we didn't know what the hell we were doing; and we fell asleep, we were outside hiding, and got found by his mother. We got caught in the act basicly, and his mother was not very pleased. She told my mom, and my mother almost killed me <_<

Anyway, when I reached around 11 or 12 years of age, I masturbated on a regular basis and I penetrated myself every chance I got. So, I'm not sure if i took my own virginity :lol: I had my first real sexual partner at 13, that night was also my first blow job. I was with that guy for many, many, many years. But besides him, I have had intercourse with 4 other men. Each of them only once, and out of the 4 only 1 knew what he was doing. With that guy, I initiated my first bit of S&M (and that was in high school :ph34r: ). I didn't want him to see me naked (I was very insecure) so I blindfolded him, tied his hands, and took charge. That was some good fucking B)

Then there were two guys that ONLY performed oral sex on me. They were VERY talented :P Mixed in with all of that, has been many hand jobs over the years and when I was younger I did mutual masturbation with female friends at camp and with one cousin (no touching or kissing). I have always wanted to taste another woman, just haven't gotten the opportunity yet, and believe me, when it comes along it won't pass by me.

So I'm not sure about the age of lost virginity, could be 8 or 13, you choose.

Total (starting from 13 yrs. old): intercourse- 5 men

oral sex only- 2 men

females- 0

------------------------

total 7 men- PRICELESS B)

I am now 25.

DISCLAIMER: For all who wonder why I started at such a young age, NO!, I was never sexually molested or anything like that. I was just one bold, nosey ass kid who read everthing I could get my hands on and was never afraid to try anything. I am a very proud TRYsexual ;):rolleyes:

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Ok, I thought I would just put this out there for curiosity purposes only ;)

How old were you when you lost your virginity? What age are you now, and how many sexual partners have you had?

I was just shy of being 18 and he was 21.... i'm just shy of being 41 and we have been married almost 22 years now. hes the only one i'v ever been with.

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I lost my virginity at age 17, to a man with a .44 magnum, long barrel bluesteel.

2 lovers were ex husbands, 1 is an ex boyfriend.

I have been with 2 females.

total count,

4 males

2 females

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No worries Majikal,

It happened a very long time ago.

He has since then gone to prison for doing the same thing to someone else.

So in the end, its all good. :)

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I lost my virginity at 18.

I have had 42 male partners, several of these were one nighters some lasted longer.

I believe in taking the test drive before I put forth effort in a relationship.

If the sex is bad or the equipment faulty, I am not sticking around.

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I would definitely agree with your attitude on not sticking around with "equipement" which is faulty! How many of us girls have invested time in a relationship to have a pencil dick or a horribly, horribly bad lover revealed when we have 'saved ourselves' for sex?

I myself have tried it both ways - waiting and having sex rather quickly - and it seems to me, if the relationship is going to work, it is going to work whether or not you have sex quick or slow - it is whether you are compatible or not which is the key!

Mikayla

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Oh, what the heck, I'll play.

Let's see...I lost my virginty two months shy of my 19th birthday, to my long-distance boyfriend who flew out for the event. My first bj was the day before my deflowering. I didn't recieve oral sex until my next partner, though. So there's my first, my ex, one guy that I experimented with once and decided I wasn't into pain enough to continue, and my current. Plus three women from scattered intervals.

So

4 men

3 women

= 7 by age 26.

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I am 50, I have have been with between 25 and 30 women. However just 4 in the last 22 years. My ex-wife for 20 years and two short flings after the divorce and finally with my Asawa who will certainly be my last. I was 18 when I lost my virginity.

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I am almost 41. I lost it at 21. I had chances before that but it didn't feel right. So I guess I was a late starter. I have only had 3 partners as well. All women. First one I was with for almost 10 years on and off ,married for

4 1/2 years. Next was a gf for a while. Now married for 6 1/2 years together for 2 before that.

Cheers!

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I lost my virginity at 14 in a brothel in Nevada. Have had sex with 7 women (not counting brothels which were common when I was a teenager). 2 were in mfmf sessions and one in a mmf setting. I am 64, today.

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O.K., this is a very tricky question, because I am not really sure when I lost my virginity :o . No, I am not dumb, and don't look at me like I'm stupid (like you can actually see me, LOL :lol: )

I have always been very curious about sex and boys, since I was about 7 or 8. I loved to play doctor and house a lot (you know, I'll be the mommy, you be the daddy :) ) I remember when I was about 8 I tried to have sex with a friend, but I don't remember if He actually got it in, because we didn't know what the hell we were doing; and we fell asleep, we were outside hiding, and got found by his mother. We got caught in the act basicly, and his mother was not very pleased. She told my mom, and my mother almost killed me <_<

Anyway, when I reached around 11 or 12 years of age, I masturbated on a regular basis and I penetrated myself every chance I got. So, I'm not sure if i took my own virginity :lol: I had my first real sexual partner at 13, that night was also my first blow job. I was with that guy for many, many, many years. But besides him, I have had intercourse with 4 other men. Each of them only once, and out of the 4 only 1 knew what he was doing. With that guy, I initiated my first bit of S&M (and that was in high school :ph34r: ). I didn't want him to see me naked (I was very insecure) so I blindfolded him, tied his hands, and took charge. That was some good fucking B)

Then there were two guys that ONLY performed oral sex on me. They were VERY talented :P Mixed in with all of that, has been many hand jobs over the years and when I was younger I did mutual masturbation with female friends at camp and with one cousin (no touching or kissing). I have always wanted to taste another woman, just haven't gotten the opportunity yet, and believe me, when it comes along it won't pass by me.

So I'm not sure about the age of lost virginity, could be 8 or 13, you choose.

Total (starting from 13 yrs. old): intercourse- 5 men

oral sex only- 2 men

females- 0

------------------------

total 7 men- PRICELESS B)

I am now 25.

DISCLAIMER: For all who wonder why I started at such a young age, NO!, I was never sexually molested or anything like that. I was just one bold, nosey ass kid who read everthing I could get my hands on and was never afraid to try anything. I am a very proud TRYsexual ;):rolleyes:

lost virginity at 17

have had somewhere between 30-40 partners (some i don't want to remember)

am currently 36 yrs old and married to the greatest lover i've ever come across

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