Members Twist Posted April 7, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 7, 2008 My fairly new partner is a lot hairier than I'm used to, and when giving oral sex we all know that stray hairs can get about. I really want to do a full on blow job for him including taking his balls into my mouth, but the hair is taking some getting used to.Anybody else had this problem, and do you get used to it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted April 7, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 7, 2008 If this is causing a problem for you it is your responsibilty to let him or her know about it. Ask your partner to at least trim it up. It's is a small sacrifice, if you could call it that, with a better gain in his/her favor. The worst they could say is no! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team TonboMidori Posted April 7, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted April 7, 2008 It's personal preference. It doesn't really bother me much, though my SO did ask me if I would be willing to "clip a little closer" a while back. I appreciate him asking, since I know that means he will let me know what he likes and dislikes. Besides, flossing with stray hairs is no good for either person involved. I mean, unless you're into that kind of thing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted April 7, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 7, 2008 When I met my husband he was hairy. After sometime togeather we talked. He shaves now and I love it. Try talking to him and letting him know, communication is a great tool. Let him know how much you want to give him a blowjob and suck in his balls to, and that it would be easier for you to do it if he was neatly trimmed or shaved, Offer to do it for him. Nothing wrong with a little playing and trimming. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted April 7, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 7, 2008 Ask him if he wants to pay the dental bill for a haircut. He'll get the picture! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Desires08 Posted April 7, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 7, 2008 Ask him if he wants to pay the dental bill for a haircut. He'll get the picture!LMAO! Pappy you're a trip. lol. I am with Nymph on this. Don't be afraid to let him know what you like and don't like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted April 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 10, 2008 My boy trims a bit for me because of one not-so-funny instance that my poor depth perception perceived his hair being farther away than it was. I got hair up the nose and in the eyes.... we had a GREAT laugh after, but it wasn't too pleasant!I trim for him too. He is still getting used to going down on me, but he is MUCH more willing when I trim.We talked about it. Communication is key everywhere in a relationship, particularly in bed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Twist Posted April 10, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted April 10, 2008 Thanks for all of the replies, and it is definitely something I'll bring up when we've been together a bit longer.It is trimmed but probably just not as much as I'm used to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hollybw Posted April 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 10, 2008 Trust me, once he discovers how much better it feels for him to have the hair gone, as well as the things you will do for him after he does it, he will probably keep it cut from then on!My hubby's best friend told him to do it years ago, but he wasn't convinced. After we talked about it, he finally decided to try it out. Point of the story: he's been bald ever since! Good luck!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Twist Posted April 14, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted April 14, 2008 hehe thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Natalie Posted April 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 15, 2008 yeah, my boyfriend is rather hairy, too. I've avoided going down on him so far because I'm not ready to face the 'red forest of death' as he calls it. We've talked about trimming and stuff, but it hasn't happened yet, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jaca Posted April 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 15, 2008 Trimming is certainly the best option but some guys are a bit funny about it.Alternative is to get some yummy lube and slick the hair down and out of the way... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Twist Posted April 15, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted April 15, 2008 What a fab idea, our next "rendevous" will call for lube so I'll give it a try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jackie102 Posted April 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 You can try to have some fun and trim him together. Afterwards, you can show your enthusiasm for a nicely shaved area, by driving him crazy with an out of this World BJ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Twist Posted April 16, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 I'm not sure we've been together long enough for him to let me at him with any kind of sharp/cerrated instrument lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted April 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 I bought my gf a personal trimmer at our local adult shop for about $20. It works on me just as well with no nicks or cuts at all and gets a lot closer than I thought it would. Scissors may help to thin the herd first but isn't neccessary. It will go through thick hair also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie lola lee Posted April 27, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 ask him if he would mind shaving you lather up and see then tell him eveyone gets a trim believe it's hot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted April 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 ask him if he would mind shaving you lather up and see then tell him eveyone gets a trim believe it's hotI agree. Having him shave you might be a turn on for him, then you can return the favor, although it seems like it would be easier without an erection?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted April 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 My husband is very hairy, I chest hair and all, but he keeps his pubic area very trimmed. Shaved? I suppose if he wanted to, but it's not necessary for me. I am fully shaved and will NEVER go back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Never Enough Posted May 9, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 9, 2008 My fairly new partner is a lot hairier than I'm used to, and when giving oral sex we all know that stray hairs can get about. I really want to do a full on blow job for him including taking his balls into my mouth, but the hair is taking some getting used to.Anybody else had this problem, and do you get used to it?I love to play with his penis[every where] and sometimes I would get a hair and it would hurt him.I trimmed his pubes very short and that became a hassel,so now I shave him and he loves the smooth look as I do.We are both smooth now from top to bottom.He loves it when I lick under his balls and touch his smooth g-spot.He says it is much more enjoyable without the hair.He loves licking my smooth pussy,espically after I have cum and I love licking up any cum off his shaved cock and balls that I missed swallowing.Surprise him with a free shave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hot4hubby Posted May 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 23, 2008 I love to play with his penis[every where] and sometimes I would get a hair and it would hurt him.I trimmed his pubes very short and that became a hassel,so now I shave him and he loves the smooth look as I do.We are both smooth now from top to bottom.He loves it when I lick under his balls and touch his smooth g-spot.He says it is much more enjoyable without the hair.He loves licking my smooth pussy,espically after I have cum and I love licking up any cum off his shaved cock and balls that I missed swallowing.Surprise him with a free shave.Thank god my hubby shaves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 I'm not sure we've been together long enough for him to let me at him with any kind of sharp/cerrated instrument lol.Generall I have learned that if i guy thinks he's going to get head(or in this case more often) he'll do almost anything. And the idea of you shaving him and the blowing, will usually overwhelm him. Make a whole deal out of it, nice warm wash cloth (to soften up the hairs)soothing after-shave gel, small scissors (anything too big might be scary) etc etc etc. Then after you clean up all the freshly demolished hairs (another great use for that wash cloth) go to town! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bugs0825 Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 I agree. Having him shave you might be a turn on for him, then you can return the favor, although it seems like it would be easier without an erection??I think that its a lot easier to shave with an erection. It is easier to shave tight skin than loose skin. There is lots of great info here on TT. It helped me a lot. There are sooooo many benefits, better sensations, better view, less smell, its cleaner, and things look bigger when they are not hiding behind a large bush. give it a shot, if its not for him then just let it grow back.Bugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Twist Posted May 28, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 I'm not sure I'd ask him to shave it all off if he doesn't want to, I know the problems I have with removing hair down there, there is nothing that does not irritate my skin. But I'll be approaching him about trimming a bit more.It's not something that is stopping me giving him a blow job, I love doing it anyway, it's just putting me off using my mouth to stimulate his balls. Saying that I should try it first it may not be that bad, but I don't want to be put off for life by the texture (I'm like that with some food). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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