Review Team sass Posted October 12, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted October 12, 2008 OK, so I have thought about posting this poll for awhile. I am just not sure if people will be honest. I hope they will be. I guess this is just my naturally curious mind at work. I will admit to two of the three and I am working up the nerve to do the third. I am interested in thoughts and feelings about these things. A few online friends of mine who are also fairly new to the word of cybering and camming have talked about what the rules are (if any) and how it all compares.The poll would not let me add another question, but I also wonder about phone sex. I have only very recently experienced this for the first time, but what about the rest of you? Do you? Have you? Would you?And I don't mean just with people met online or whatever - what about you married folks? Do you cam when one of you is away? Cyber?I look forward to seeing the results!MS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted October 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 12, 2008 I have cybersexed and masturbated for my hubby via webcam. When you have a hubby who travels quite a bit, sometimes you need to spice up masturbation time ya know.I have had phone sex too, and I have had 'accidental' cybersex too (where the convo got hot and before I knew it the guy said, 'oh thanks, I have to go clean up now.'Phone sex isn't really my thing. I prefer words on a screen. For me, I can make my own mind picture better that way.I think cybersex can be really fun and a great turn on....and sometimes it even happens when you least expect it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted October 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 12, 2008 I've cybered, and I've done teh phone sex thing but I don't have a web cam and i'm pretty sure it'd kill my poor computer. But I'm not really into either one, I think it's mostly because I'm really just missing real sex and not that into a subsitute, does that make sense? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted October 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 12, 2008 OK, so I have thought about posting this poll for awhile. I am just not sure if people will be honest. I hope they will be. I guess this is just my naturally curious mind at work. I will admit to two of the three and I am working up the nerve to do the third. I am interested in thoughts and feelings about these things. A few online friends of mine who are also fairly new to the word of cybering and camming have talked about what the rules are (if there any) and how it all compares.The poll would not let me add another question, but I also wonder about phone sex. I have only very recently experienced this for the first time, but what about the rest of you? Do you? Have you? Would you?And I don't mean just with people met online or whatever - what about you married folks? Do you cam when one of is away? Cyber?I look forward to seeing the results!MSI voted I have not done any of those... I have had phone sex though! I would do those things if it was involving my husband like Mikayla did... Otherwise no I wouldn't with anyone else. If I was single... I am sure I totally would! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted October 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 12, 2008 i have done the cyber and phone sex with hubby.. he was in norway and i was here, so yeah... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted October 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 I have been involved with cyber and do enjoy it. It can add a different spin on things which is nice. Something fun to share when you can't be together.Phone sex I have gotten into in the last few months. We have used it when he was on business at first. Then we have used it when I was masturbating I have called and started trouble that way which is a lot of fun. We have shared this in different versions or forms which was nice. It added something different and helped me with learning to verbalize and share more. I used to not talk much or be able to tell my wants or needs....now I can more. Definitely a fun way to work on it.I have been the receiver of a web cam but have not been the giver yet. I am thinking about trying it, but not something I would share with anyone other than who I am in a relationship with. I have already taken videos and sent it so it is a start.This all can add a lot of fun to a relationship, but remember it should be used wisely. At the same time these things I am sure could cause trouble to relationships as well. Depends on the people involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted October 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 I've done all with my second boyfriend via webcam....My most recent SO and I are getting internet toys within the next 2 weeks..... And he just got a webcam.... SO much cheaper than a plane ticket!I really helps with missing one another.... you feel a little like they aren't even gone until you want to hug them and there's a computer screen blocking you.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members stockingsandheels Posted October 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 I have done cyber sex and cam sex and enjoyed it very much. Never did the phone thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members FOS Posted October 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 I don't have a webcam, and I'm not really motivated to get one- not because of being ashamed of anything on my part; not at all...just don't see myself doing it anytime soon.However- yes, cyber and phone sex do serve a very good purpose, I have found. As lonely as it can be, sometimes it's the best you can do, when geographic distance is involved. Some of those times have definitely been the best orgasms I've ever had without a woman being physically present. So yes...I'm a fan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members spanky Posted October 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 someone recently peak an intrest in cyber sex and I am very willing to try this. thingis Im married and this would not be with my wife. I dont know if this could be considered as cheating or not my thought is it is like masurbating in to porn right? What is the opinion on this?I am really intrested in trying this and would like to know. my marriage sexualy is not good right now, I have never done this, camming also sounds intresting, but dont have a cam. never done the phone sex, like Mikayla written words are best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team jupluna Posted October 13, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 My ex and I lived 3000 miles apart (thus the ex thing) and when we couldn't shell out the money for a visit we would do whatever we could. Cybering, phone sex, and web cam (at that time I was the only one with a cam) and surprisingly it worked out for a little while at least. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team jupluna Posted October 13, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 someone recently peak an intrest in cyber sex and I am very willing to try this. thingis Im married and this would not be with my wife. I dont know if this could be considered as cheating or not my thought is it is like masurbating in to porn right? What is the opinion on this?I am really intrested in trying this and would like to know. my marriage sexualy is not good right now, I have never done this, camming also sounds intresting, but dont have a cam. never done the phone sex, like Mikayla written words are best.Yes it is cheating. Not in physical action, but in intimacy. If she ever found out, she would feel the same way she would have if she would have found you in bed with someone else. Probably even worse. There would have been no physical, all mental and emotional, and most women (not all) find a breach in trust at that level even worse than the physical one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted October 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 someone recently peak an intrest in cyber sex and I am very willing to try this. thingis Im married and this would not be with my wife. I dont know if this could be considered as cheating or not my thought is it is like masurbating in to porn right? What is the opinion on this?I am really intrested in trying this and would like to know. my marriage sexualy is not good right now, I have never done this, camming also sounds intresting, but dont have a cam. never done the phone sex, like Mikayla written words are best.Well you tell me, if your Wife was doing it how would you feel? Talking to some guy about what she wanted him to do to her and vice versa??? Would she be OK with you doing it? That is the issue at hand! If you are having problems in your marriage sexually, straying is not the answer, unless you are giving up. Otherwise you should probably try finding something for the 2 of you as a couple. I think Cyber sex is a little more than just masturbating to porn. It is a real person and you are getting off together. It is pretty intimate and it can become complicated! Just be careful. If you love your wife try to work on your marriage. I wouldn't risk it... What exactly is going on maybe we can help! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members synirr Posted October 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 Yes, yes, and yes. It has been years since I did the cybersex thing, but I'm no stranger to webcams. Webcams were very helpful when my boy was out of town this summer and we could only see one-another in person once a week! Oddly, phone sex just seems awkward to me and I've never tried it, although I did have one ex who enjoyed masturbating while talking with me over the phone and seeing how long it took for me to figure out why he wasn't as talkative. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 I had erotic conversations but not phone or cyber sex YET. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thunderchild Posted October 21, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 21, 2008 I have not done cybersex as hubby never goes away but suppose I would if he did. I have done text sex and do that often when he is on night shift. We send pictures to one another and tell each other what we want done, I fine it a big turn-on!!!! I can't do phone sex or dirty talk face to face as it makes me giggle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Smile4Me Posted March 31, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 OOoh what a fun topic to bring alive again! hehehehe I have done ALL THREE and enjoy every bit of it!! There is just something so liberating about it; manipulating your words in a way you would be too shy to do in person, and the thrill of knowing someone is watching...who wouldn't be turned on by that!!I will tell a little story about particularly fun experiences with this:I have an online buddy that I've known for 4 or 5 years now, since I was about 18 or so. He is one of those people who likes picking your brain and finding your many "sides", the side you're too modest to show usually. But not in the horny teenager kind of way, in a very seductive, yet reassuring way. Very in-tune with me, he knew what I liked to hear and see, and he knew exactly what to say to make me see stars. We'd start teasing each other with naughty-words here and there, and then somehow we'd end up in a balls-to-the-wall cybersex-capade. That eventually led to phone sex, which after talking online for so long, was VERY erotic... it put a sexy voice with the personality I had grown to know and cherish, I knew I could be myself. We still do the naughty stuff from time to time, but have a fantastic friendship as well. It's one of those situations where you feel outside of yourself (for lack of better terms)...for that smidge of time you can let go and bring out that sexual being you are inside, and without any judgment. MMMMM good times indeed.The trick to the best cybersex (or even phone sex) is doing it with a person that truly knows how to turn you on in ways you never knew existed. A person that is on the same level as you and likes every "side" of you, no matter how kinky that may be! With that, it's truly a sexually fulfilling experience...and is way more gratifying than a lonesome masturbation session! (And well, even some physical sack sessions I've had!! LOL ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members complete abandon Posted April 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 Yes, Yes, and Yes! It's totally hot and erotic. Phone sex is a little more awkward. Seeing and typing the words just helps ramp up the sexiness although when you get to a certain point you kind of lose your typing ability. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted April 1, 2009 Author Review Team Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 ... although when you get to a certain point you kind of lose your typing ability. Yeah, it can be hard to type one-handed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted April 1, 2009 Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 Or it can be hard to decipher:anhnruhnhnrvgnrvnhhvbn jbhnnnhju vbjluobnhtpijm3ewWhen one is cumming!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted April 1, 2009 Author Review Team Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 LMAO!!! Right you are, Tyger!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted April 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 Or it can be hard to decipher:anhnruhnhnrvgnrvnhhvbn jbhnnnhju vbjluobnhtpijm3ewWhen one is cumming!! :lol: :lol: :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shoupja Posted April 11, 2009 Members Report Share Posted April 11, 2009 I never would have looked in this forum for this poll if it wasn't linked from another thread. Because of the situation I am in, I don't really consider this topic fetish & bondage - rather I consider it a requirement of our relationship. My husband and I have had and will continue to have cyber sex. A year long deployment is an awful long time for a couple that wants to maintain fidelity. There is no better way for a couple to relieve their sexual frustrations when separated for an extended period of time. I really surprised myself the first time I did it. He couldn't be an active participant because of stupid roommates , but he watched me, and he left his cam on for me, and I could see him licking his lips and swallowing really hard when he liked something I was doing. That was kinda sexy! I couldn't type so he typed messages to me and asked me to do things. The nice thing about my web-cam is it's a USB cam, so I can move it around and get close-ups. He really enjoyed that and I loved performing for him. I don't know why, but it all made me feel incredibly sexy being the object of my man's desire. We plan on doing this a few times a month and I have few naughty surprises planned for him. Can you say school girl outfit and pig tails anyone? I recently found a pair of 4 inch "saddle shoes" to go with the skirt I already had. He is going to wish that he was the lollipop I am going to be sucking! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members WifeMomSlave Posted May 26, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2009 I had to click no on all the poll questions, However.....I would absolutely LOVE to have sex while the web cam is running....It is like "safe" public sex......no getting busted for indecent exposure! IDK.....just holds a lot of appeal for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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