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What are your sexual limits? How far are you willing to go or, by your definition, what is the kinkiest thing you are willing or want to do? Are you willing to go further than your parnter is?

For me, I won't do anything that involves leaving permanent marks - and no scat, animals or kids.

I have had a 3some, tried golden showers, and enjoy the flogger (if done correctly). I would love to delve deeper into the world of BDSM(ropes, chains, whips, etc) and hubby is interested but we haven't gotten there yet.

So what about you - by your own definition, what your kinkiest likes and desires?

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We have always said we would be willing to try something at least once, but scat is definately non one of them. I have been restrained, golden showers as a giver and receiver, whips and threesome. We also have done phone sex but in the common and an uncommon way. While we were having sex we had someone on the phone with us listening and participating in some ways. I am not someone that gets off really on BDSM...light stuff is fine for me. Others are....everyone is different. Just like I enjoy golden showers and for some that is absolutely a no.

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OK, let us begin with what I won't do:

necrophilia

anything with animals

anything with urination or defecation (not judging, just not my thing)

anything with children

no snuff films or 'real' gang bangs or violence

I am definitely more kinky than my partner - he is Mr. Vanilla

My sexual limits? Well, besides the things listed above, I really don't have any if the activity is done in the name of pleasure. I like pain (but not extreme pain),I like to be dominated, I like to experiment with unusual things. I like to push the limits of my sexuality. My limit would be feeling abused. I am up for about anything, but, being married to Mr. Vanilla doesn't really afford me much chance to continue to experiment.

The kinkiest thing I have done: probably participating in a very extreme BDSM 'orgy'

THe kinkiest thing I want to do: I'm keeping that one a secret :)

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After reading some of the above postings I'm feeling very vanilla. However I've come a long way baby!, thanks to the perseverance and patience of my wonderful husband. However it is now time for me to persevere, I fear he may be turning into Mr. Vanilla himself. :o!

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i am kinkier than hubby. he sets boundaries that i abide by cause i wouldnt want to hurt him. i can go with women but not men. dont do anything illegal or what i find disasteful such as urinating during sex. love to watch porn. would like to be tied up someday.

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I would definitely be the kinkier of the duo. Things I wouldn't ever consider would be scat (anal is fine if clean), urination, rape fantasy (huge turn off), torture, and anything illegal. What I'd like to try? I've always been curious about pegging. :P Maybe doing a threesome with DP? I love seeing it in porn, looks fun.

I think it would also be nice to lay back and relinquish control - not quite submission in the BDSM sense but I'd love to not have to initiate and do everything in an encounter. Biggest turn-on for me is *enthusiasm*. It's wonderful to be ravished once in a while, even better with gusto.

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I would say that I am the one that is more kinky. I'm more willing to try new things than he is. I won't do anything with kids or animals, not in to golden showers or scat, and I'm not in to BDSM. I have many toys that I enjoy using, I have been with another girl while the boyfriend watched, we've had a threesome, anal, and sex outside in random places (which is always fun). As for what I'd like to try, I wouldn't mind being loosely tied up while my SO ravishes and teases me. I do love to be teased because it just makes me want him that much more. I'd also like to do the same to him. :D

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I'm pretty much going to give the same answer as Mikayla here. I'm up for almost anything other than those things. Oh, and I don't like anything to do with feet (except sexy shoes). I don't like to have my feet messed with at ALL. LOL

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I find it hard to believe this topic only covers one page over about 2 months time. I think it goes without saying I can't live without anal sex. Given the opportunity I would love to spend several hours (or more) in a fully equipped dungeon with a way hot Mistress. I'd like to try being dominated. Slowly at first, put me in stocks or possibly a spanking bench. I love to be spanked when I'm getting banged. I found a few years ago I enjoy being spanked with a paddle. I once broke a ping pong paddle while having sex. Since then I learned that some things can't be improvised. I have 2 leather paddles I like to swat myself with on my butt cheeks, back of my legs and inner thighs close to my balls. As my excitement heightens I like a slap or two very close to my dick. I find it somewhat difficult to administer enough spanks while administering the proper amount of in and outness of my many dongs. One just doesn't have enough hands to go around. While I haven't experienced flogging I'd love to be on the receiving end of that. I'd like to experience sight deprivation. Often when I feel like I'm close to cumming it gets to the point where I just can't go on. The sensations are so fierce and overwhelming I have to stop for a minute or two. While I inadvertently deny myself the Big O at least I have a nice mini assgasm. This will have to do until such time as I find a willing partner. This is one of the primary reasons I would prefer a partner who will indulge me. This is something I would really like to experience at least once and it's on my 'Bucket List'.

One of my wildest fantasies is to get gangbanged by at least 5 or 6 young men. When they cum I want to feel their scalding hot spunk and feel their cocks buck and growl as they unload in my manpussy. Starting out with the smallest hardon and as each dick leaves and is replaced by the next larger or longer dick. While this is happening a tantalizing woman in fetish attire is flogging or spanking me. At times and often she will drag her fingernails along my skin leaving red marks. Squeezing and tweaking my nipples, licking my ears or my nutsack, occasionally playing with my cock or engulfing it with her hot mouth but not letting me cum. As each throbbing cock pulls out for the last time it is replaced by a long talented tongue for 5 minutes or so of ultra intense tongue fucking to ready my ass for the next cock in line. While I am getting the fucking of my life a face mask heavily laced with 'Rush' or 'Jungle Juice' is placed over my face so that I might inhale deeply and enjoy the rush it gives my head and the sexual feelings that flow straight to my genitals. And from time to time a bowl or joint will pass my lips filled with a natural herb substance known in some circles as 420. This item may be against someones law somewhere. I choose to just say no to their BS laws.

Extreme pain like that in the SM realm has no appeal for me. Nothing to do with kids or scat or necrophilia. Golden showers is somewhat appealing to me under the right circumstances (like a bathtub or shower room). Electro stimulation is an area I saw demonstrated once by a very voluptous and knowledgable woman and a very willing male volunteer. This is something I've done a bit of research in. These electric pleasure/pain instruments are quite expensive initially and not something a novice like me can afford. Now if on the other hand a kinky woman of means with the equipment, knowledge and expertise would like to show me these pleasures and she has my trust I would consider it.

Tho I wouldn't say I have rape fantasies the idea of being overwhelmed, seduced and anally ravished by a hot skinny blond has certain bits of me twitching just thinking about it. I would like to have kinky sex with an Asian gal and sex with a tranny turns me on to no end. I'd like to be in an orgy with a bi woman, a cute passable CD, bi man, a bi curious straight man, a tranny and a straight woman. XD

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I am a pretty kinky girl, but I guess not as kinky as some.

I love the secret that has the threat of being found out.

A guy once sent me a video of him Jacking off in the shower

I was so turned on by it especially seeing him cum

I am a control freak by nature I guess I feel that if someone

could dominate me that would turn me on but I have trouble

even imagining that someone could.

I am not into being peed on shat on beat adding kids or this and that

a foursome I have had and it was hot but it left us all feeling a little awkward

I liked it but, I would love to have a threesome,

When I was younger I used to dance in my living room window for a married man

it was extremely erotic and a huge turn on he would tell me what he wanted me to do

I thought the older I got the less sex drive I would have

Not true it just gets more intense

I love the heat of it I don't like it when it gets all complicated

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My Personal Sexual Limits...

You are not sticking that in my Arse...:P

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I find that the limits are always just a bit beyond where I have gone. ;) I do love to push the envelope. There are actually very few things I can imagine being unwilling to try, if all participants were happy with the arrangement. That is not to say that I would try ALL of them now, only that I can imagine getting there, in time.

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My limits... No lasting pain or marks, no fecal or urine play, no force or non-consent, no under age individuals, and no breath play. Otherwise I'll try anything once and more if I like it.

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It's been a few years since I responded, and, since tastes change, I'll respond again. :)

I will stick to the "No fecal, urine, spitting, under-aged, forced, or rape fantasies.

I now know that, with the right person, I do like my feet played with. My GF has been able to massage them without me cringing, and I've done some stuff with her that I've always wanted to do.

I do enjoy light spanking, and light bondage. Sex toys are a given ;)..........

I would like to enjoy some role playing games. I would love to give a sex machine a try. I would also love to have sex on the beach with my GF. This relationship is new, so we have lots of time to try things. Just takes some time.

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I am in the same boat as you sass, without the golden showers. Always willing to make a deal if I get something special want.

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Sexual limits are an interesting thing. Over the years I have discovered that my limits have changed, expanded, and have been challenged. When I first began on the sexual journey I was quite vanilla . As I have learned and experienced and grown I have explored the more kinky side of sexuality, with great pleasure I add. Having played around with both sides of the Dom/Sub dyad I find there is certain joys for both sides for me. When looking at labels most would say I am a switch, although there is something very arousing about being the Submissive. The first time I had a collar place around my neck I was nearly orgasmic the whole time. Playing the Dominant role was a rush of power and extreme caring. In my early years toys were never an option. Now they are a must. Role play, fantasy and edging have become part of my desires. The limits I stated earlier still apply. But I love the discovery.

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On ‎9‎/‎26‎/‎2010 at 4:05 PM, Mikayla1 said:

OK, let us begin with what I won't do:

necrophilia

anything with animals

anything with urination or defecation (not judging, just not my thing)

anything with children

no snuff films or 'real' gang bangs or violence

I am definitely more kinky than my partner - he is Mr. Vanilla

My sexual limits? Well, besides the things listed above, I really don't have any if the activity is done in the name of pleasure. I like pain (but not extreme pain),I like to be dominated, I like to experiment with unusual things. I like to push the limits of my sexuality. My limit would be feeling abused. I am up for about anything, but, being married to Mr. Vanilla doesn't really afford me much chance to continue to experiment.

The kinkiest thing I have done: probably participating in a very extreme BDSM 'orgy'

THe kinkiest thing I want to do: I'm keeping that one a secret :)

 

It is sad for you and me with our wants and a so with not much interest.  My so has done many requests, but just not into it.  I  calculate she has swallowed over twenty gallons of my cum,  With my hands cuffed behind me. How can I complain. I have an interesting story that goes a lot farther,my best O. I will share somewhere on this site. I am new and still getting familiar with the site. Unintentional extreme pain before best O. My homemade gag worked too well. Perhaps the three cell vib. was the wrong choice.

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On 6/23/2015 at 7:23 PM, WenWitch said:

Tyger: What's a "sex machine"?

Sex machine, aka a fucking machine. It's basically a vibrator on steriods!! LOL Motorized dildo on a stand that goes back and forth, to thrust inside of a person!

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On 3/2/2016 at 2:35 PM, RC4BLUE said:

Sexual limits are an interesting thing. Over the years I have discovered that my limits have changed, expanded, and have been challenged. When I first began on the sexual journey I was quite vanilla . As I have learned and experienced and grown I have explored the more kinky side of sexuality, with great pleasure I add. Having played around with both sides of the Dom/Sub dyad I find there is certain joys for both sides for me. When looking at labels most would say I am a switch, although there is something very arousing about being the Submissive. The first time I had a collar place around my neck I was nearly orgasmic the whole time. Playing the Dominant role was a rush of power and extreme caring. In my early years toys were never an option. Now they are a must. Role play, fantasy and edging have become part of my desires. The limits I stated earlier still apply. But I love the discovery.

I too, was quite vanilla when I started out. I think we pretty much usually are though.

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There once was a man built a fucking machine

With a cock of steel and balls of cream

With delight his wife would loudly scream

As she  repeated enjoying the  fucking machine

In and out went the cock of steel

Round and round went the balls of cream

But alas alas  the story is unfit

For the woman was split from twat to tit

And the fucking machine was shot to shit.

 

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On ‎2‎/‎16‎/‎2012 at 5:52 PM, ReadyToMoveOn said:

My Personal Sexual Limits...

You are not sticking that in my Arse...:P

Damn you!

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Funny poem!! LOL

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